my mum passed away 6 weeks ago in my arms, i l loved her very much but do not feel upset i have the odd little cry,am i so cold hearted to feel like this i really thought id feel her presents but there is nothing there, am i normal i feel so guilty.
2007-03-01 00:45:46 · 5 answers · asked by susiesnowdrop 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
~She really is gone. I think you may still be in shock. The reality that your mother has died hasn't sunk in yet. This is probably your natural defenses way of dealing with such a tragedy.
Don't feel guilty, we all grieve in our own way.~
2007-03-01 00:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grieve in many different ways. You may very well be a person who accepts the reality of death. There is nothing wrong if you do not dwell on the death of a loved one. Quilt is present when we do something wrong. If you did nothing wrong, then no need to feel guilty. You loved your mother, you've accepted her passing, let it go. It's fine.
2007-03-01 00:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by S H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are normal. It happens. I'm sorry about your "mum". Call a friend to talk about it some more or go see a councler. Sorry!
2007-03-01 00:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grief effects anyone in different ways some people dont cry at all
you could just have gone into shock im sure it will hit you eventually.
2007-03-01 01:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Natasha G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. When my dad passed I never really felt the loss either.
2007-03-01 00:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by The kissman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋