i think my husband is weird. we have been married for 9 years now and he has no friends. he is a architect and he doesnt hang out with anyone. he did have a friend but i found out he and the friend were cheating on us at least a neihor told me so that ended the friendship. now he doesnt have any friends and no one comes over to our house only my friends. my friends have kids and i dont but i get along with their kids. he just is a loner and we lilve in a big house like this. i feel empty. his excuse for not having friends over is because he says that they are professionals and i am not but my friends are all nurses and i am in school for nursing. do you think he is makeing up excuses. also i am hypoglycemic and when my sugar drops and i freak out and cry he tells me that i am a wacko and that he is sick of being my servent but i am always having this problem
2007-03-01 00:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lucky you.Me and my ex split up because he always had his friends round my house.I really cant see why its such a problem for you.
2007-03-01 00:26:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesnt if he blows you off for your health concern. If anything you need to do some serious thinking since 9 years is a long time to consider the next step of your relationship. My ex boyfriend was a loner and expected me to stick by him at all times when his friends were either dead or in jail-he was a gang banger. If your husband cheated then he definetly doesnt respect you if he treats you like you don't matter. You deserve better than that.
2007-03-01 00:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your concern? You say your husband doesn't have friends but then that he deosn't bring his friends to your home. Which is it?
They you say he does have freind but you think he is embarrassed to bring them over because you are not a professional.
Living with someone who suffers with blood sugar level problems is difficult. Both me and my partner have this - we just tell each other to eat and then we'll discuss whatever we're upset about. But you also need to take responsibility for yourself with that and make sure you eat every 4 hours!
So decide what your problem is. Do you want your husband to have more freinds? Do you feel he is embarassed by you? Or is it something more - the emptyness - do you want kids?
2007-03-01 00:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, that sounds really sad. It also sounds like you're in an emotionally abusive relationship. You both need help if you want to be healthy. That, or get out while you still have time to help yourself.
Sorry, I don't know how else to see this.
2007-03-01 00:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are heading for a divorce. You should seek professional counseling for these problems if you really want to stay together.
2007-03-01 00:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gid efternin,lol, you already kin the answer? your jist scared ti make the first move??? you need out of the relationship?you kin its not going to go anywhere? youv already thought about finishing it?[go on? be truthful?lol] yer jist needin that wee push?move on and get some enjoyment back in yer life hen?loltake care, derek
2007-03-01 00:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by derek336170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if your missing male company
2007-03-01 00:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by PAUL D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋