I am losing my friend of 6 years. She has completely cut not only me but all of our friends out of her life. She has a boyfriend and spends most of her time with him or her new work friends. The thing is I have a boyfriend too but I make time for my friends too so I am not one of those girls who cuts out her friends when shes with a guy. I have tried calling her and even talked to her boyfriend. She said shes been working a lot and hasnt had time. No time for 3 months to answer a phone call though? I think what I should do it write her a letter and if she doenst respond there isnt much else I can do. I just hate seeing this friendship ending. Is there anything else I can do?
2007-03-01 00:02:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I understand how ur feeling right now. If u want ur friendship to work out, my advice is to wait and let her come back to u. That's what I did for my friend did for years. Just be careful with ur heart in this.
Because one day all ur patience and understanding might come back to bite u in the ****.
2007-03-01 00:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i ahve lost a friend of 10years. U cant do much abt it if the other person is not interested. Relationships r 2 sided,it works only if both respond positively.ok so my opinon is just move on in life & u will surely get much more better & good friends in life who will stay with u through out ur life ok GOOD LUCK tc bye.....
2007-03-01 08:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very hard but as you get older you will find
friends come and go even very close ones
it is part of living and growing up
be there for her when she comes back it will be like she never left i promise
i have 2 friends who moved on with their life and as we got older we realized we lost touch its ok
now every few months we get in a conference call (some of us life far away) and last yr everyone came to my house for a week
its LIFE it happens but a true friend always comes back
2007-03-01 08:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, it's just something your friend needs to do, so let her go, she might contact you down the road sometime, then it'll be your call whether you want to deal with this person or not. You can't force anybody to do something.
2007-03-01 08:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her relationship is more important at this point, there maybe more reasons, like her new boyfriend, he may not like her spending time with her friends, or she just to busy with her new relationship, in time she will come around, she needs friends, just not now. dont force her or she may drop you all together, let her call you, no matter how long it takes.....
2007-03-01 08:13:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
F u c k her.
If she is going to be like that, than she has become a person that cares so little for her friends, youre better off. Find someone that understands the importance of friendship and tell that selfish ***** to go **** herself.
2007-03-01 08:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
if they want to go let them . they will come back 4 sure
2007-03-01 08:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
close the contact
2007-03-01 08:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard but sometimes you just have to let them go.
2007-03-01 08:13:30 · answer #9 · answered by terra 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont be harsh with her, jst tell her how u feel, sweetheart, and then shes goin to know dat wat shes doin is wrong!!
2007-03-01 08:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by cairo_kittens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋