my husband won't go for help, he's got premature ejaculation, what can i do, am really fed up.?

Answer 1

Perhaps if one of his friends spoke to him about it, it make ease his embarrassment and chagrin

Answer 2

I apologies for people who think that this problem is deserves to be poked fun at, have you tried the products designed to desentitise there are several on the market durex do a condom with a lubricant that is designed to delay ejaculation. On my other half it worked a bit too well he couldn't feel his tackle lost his erection and did not come at all. But maybe it will help you.
I would say what is most important is do not take your frustration out on your husband, I bet he feels humiliated by it, the male ego is often a very delicate thing. He needs to feel he has you absolute love and support, maybe then he will feel he can go to his GP for advice.
Good luck x

Answer 3

~Instead of putting so much emphasis on his premature ejaculation, have him give you an orgasm FIRST. He won't be under so much stress about his performance and maybe he'll get better?
Being mad at him is only going to make this problem worse, he'll get a complex.
Just get yours first and it'll be alright.
Good luck.~

Answer 4

You can make him orgasm (premature or otherwise) by mouth , or boobs or bodily, then;
Arouse him again after 5 mins 'rest' and you should be able to get a bit of relief yourself!
Dont make him anxious about his 'delivery' being too soon as that makes the problem worse and leads to guilt and a breakdown in performance.

good luck with yur sex life as well. Enjoy the 'twice' method - works for my wife and i for years!

Answer 5

You can help too. What about OS to make you more aroused, or you could help him by using your hands and backing off when he is about to ejaculate. Don't' make him aware that you are fed up because it can only go downhill from there. Try to reassure him. Good luck

Answer 6

I would have to come round one evening and - show you both how its done....Seriously that doesn't sound like a joke... first of all you will need to help him...be supportive and don't laugh...and try and take some time and be alone together with no interruptions....be available for him to "practice on" take it easy....
I prolong it by taking deep breaths & looking away from my wife..and thinking of something other than sex for a moment.. Good Luck ..

Answer 7

It's not premature ejaculation, it's just a time and effort saver.

And it's not men that suffer from it, it's the woman :D

Answer 8

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Answer 9

This website has some suggestions. Best one which worked for me was the squeeze technique, where the man feels like he's reaching the "point of no return" he withdraws his penis and squeezes the base of his gland, let it go semi erect, then work his way back to hard. He should over a couple of weeks be able to control his ejaculation.

Answer 10

Be quick for the first encounter. Give him about half hour to get ready again. Start second encounter and you'll find the period of his 'comming' longer than the first. You'll enjoy doubly this time. Give this a try.

Answer 11

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