I'm 25 yo male, gay. i have this friend. i know him for 8 years since college. He never knows that i am gay, and i don't know if he's gay/not. when we both met we were 17. we hang out a lot. and since i am a straight A student, while he's not, i helps him a lot with study. He sleeps over at my place frequently to study or just playing PS2. in the past 3 yrs, He's been acting weird in his sleep (we sleep in the same bed when he sleepover, just sleep, no intimacy). Sometimes, he hug me and press his body and his **** to mine, rubbing gently till he orgasm. I don't know if it's because he's having an erotic dream or else (since i never know how i sleep when i'm having one :) ). i have to admit that he's quite attractive. one night, i just can't hold my self. i just responded to his action and even some night, i started first. anyway, sometimes he just push my body back (which i never did, if he started 1st), othertimes he hold me back or just stay still.
2007-02-28 22:47:06 · 6 answers · asked by bugzha 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'm a straight act kinda gay.
there's nothing gay about my friend, accept that sometimes i got that gay look in his eyes, very seldom.
he's that type with perfectly iron shirt, good hair cut type.
the last time he had a crush with a woman is about 5 years ago, but ended bad. then 2 years ago he had another but ended before started because i dislike the woman.
2007-02-28 22:53:36 · update #1
i don't know what i think because as i said before, there's nothing gay bout him and also he rejects me sometimes (so think that maybe it's really because he's having an erotic dream, and when he stay sleeps if i started first means i got lucky he's not awaken). but i don't know???
2007-02-28 22:57:11 · update #2
additional question: do you think i should come clean to him? i'm afraid it would ruined our friendship
2007-02-28 23:00:19 · update #3
when i say 'i just responded to his action' means i hug him back and rubbing myself to him too. but i acted as i was sleeping. and i don't know if he's a sleep or not, but he seems to be sleeping.
2007-02-28 23:02:39 · update #4
sometimes he pushes hard but sometimes just like he was tired or not in the mood.. i'm getting really confuse here. i do want him but i don't want to break our friendship by coming clean to him and turn out that he's not gay
2007-02-28 23:05:08 · update #5
i think he's gay. a 100% straight guy would normally react strongly if being flirted by a person of the same sex, let alone hold him back.
you said sometimes he pushes you back. does he push you really hard and rejects you strongly? if not, maybe he is just tired or not in the mood for intimacy.
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chances are really there that coming clean may ruin your friendship because we don't know how he would take that.
you enjoy those moments of intimacy, don't you? maybe you can graduallly increase the frequency of that, either by starting it or responding to his action, and see how he takes it. of course you can pretend to be sleeping and if he rejects you and says, 'Hey man, what's your problem?', you can just tell him that you were just having an erotic dream. And if that doesn't happen and one day, you realize that he's actually awake or just pretending to be asleep while accepting your hugs and something, it's time for you to come clean.
2007-02-28 23:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you half-sleepy you can feel really horny so I wouldn't be sure he's gay. I think you should at least talk to him about it. You don't necessarily have to say you're gay straight away but sound him out. Ask him, ``what's up with that, man, cos I have to admit sometimes you're turning me on.'' See how he reacts to that before deciding what to say next.
And even if you tell him you're gay and it turns out he's not ... if he's truly a good friend he will be totally cool with it.
2007-02-28 23:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Freddie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen the movie Brokeback Mountain ? You may find some answers .
2007-03-04 17:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by westhighland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personaly, i would still mess wit him. i'm sure u could turn him out or sumthin.
2007-03-01 01:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is i'm not sure. but just ask him
2007-03-01 00:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think?
2007-02-28 22:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋