im nearly 8 weeks pregnant. i suffered a misscarriage 2 months ago, so as youve worked out i got pregnant straight away. this pregnancy was different i felt it, i am so so tired boobs kill !! ive now started bleeding no pain but blood is red n bit brown, i have a scan on monday, but got an emergency app at 11.40 to be examined. i go away tommorow i want to no if i have a dead baby inside me. i no ive lost it i just no it. has anyone else been through this
2007-02-28 22:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by lorra 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh sweetie I'm so sorry! I'm glad you are getting yourself checked out. Noone on here can tell you if you've lost your baby, I'm afraid you'll have to wait for your appointment for that. I've miscarried and it's terrible so my thoughts are with you. Try to remember that everything could be fine, some women have spotting in the first trimester and go on to have healthy babies. Only your doctor can tell you. I can tell you that if they find a heartbeat, despite the bleeding, you have a 95% chance of having a healthy baby at the end of nine months!
I miscarried and got pregnant again immediately afterward, didn't know it because I was still bleeding monthly, only found out I was pregnant at 22 weeks, and my daughter was born healthy in November.
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Good luck with your scan and I'll be thinking of you.
Wishing you all the luck in the world!
Nicola
2007-02-28 22:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Up-side-down 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through. I had a miscarriage only 2 weeks ago and would not wish it on any one. It is a horrible experience and people don't fully understand what you go through unless you have been there yourself. I have heard of lots of women having spotting durning pregnancy and have healthy babies, but you wont be able to put your mind at rest till you have been examined by a doctor. My thoughts are with you and I will be praying everything works out for the best.
Good luck!
2007-02-28 23:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by JINKS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you everything is going to be OK, as much as I would love to, but when I was pregnant with my daughter-about 8 weeks like you- I started to bleed very heavily.
Having miscarried previously I feared the very worst but a scan on the Monday(I had to wait the weekend out, bleeding and miserable), they said everything was fine but there was a blood mass one side of my womb.
Long story short I bled heavily on and off right up until my 24th week but my daughter was born naturally at 40weeks-small at 6lb4oz but a perfect little girl none the less.
Good luck-I've got everything crossed for you.
2007-02-28 23:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother has 4 miscarriages and with her last pregnancy, my baby sister, she bled the whole time she was pregnant with her. She had a very hard pregnancy with her, but the point I am trying to get to is that bleeding does not always mean a miscarriage. I know its hard to this positive since you have been there before, but try not to get to upset yet. I had a miscarriage 4 years ago and that was very hard on me. Every pregnancy I have had since then is so hard, I am always scared that every little pain I feel is something going wrong. Try and not dwell on it, because as I know, it really doesn't help. Bless you and I hope all goes well!!
2007-03-01 00:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by kristin h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for you, it's so stressful. That the blood is a bit brownish is a good sign, as it's likely to be old blood, so maybe it's just a bit that is coming away from a while ago (sounds icky but it's possible.
Also, it's about time for implantation bleeding, which is normal.
It's good that you're being checked out, but TRY not to worry yet.
Sending you hugs and lots of sticky baby dust
2007-03-01 22:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by jop291106 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know! Please don't think like that - keep hope alive!
I woke up at 16 weeks pregnant bleeding heavily and I wouldn't let myself think I had lost my baby. I got to hospital and they told me I was almost certainly miscarrying.
I lay on the bed in the hospital room and thought over and over "Don't let this happen, please" - after a week in hospital, they told me it was safe to go home, and my baby was doing fine. The obstetrician said she was amazed, and that my little girl really wanted to hold on!
I've had to rest for the whole of my pregnancy, I'm now 30 weeks, so my baby is pretty much safe, and I'm hoping she'll hold on all the way!
Think positive, the bleeding could be nothing, it could just mean you have a high risk pregnancy and should rest!
Good luck, hun!
;-)
2007-03-01 00:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Krissyinthesun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i miscarried 2 years ago so i know what youve went throuh. however im 17 weeks pregnant now and ive had spotting and everything has been fine. calm down, stressing yourself isnt good for the baby cause there may be nothing wron. a lot of women spot in their pregnancy any carry full term healthy babys. calm down and dont stress.
good luck
2007-02-28 22:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Şơƥɦɨȩ'ȿ ♡Μυɱ˗Μυɱ♡ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam so sorry to hear that but let me tell u that bleeding does not really means that u have lost the baby,it can occur from other resons also,that is why they are doing the scan to find out the reason,so just keep ur fingers crossed,good luck
2007-02-28 23:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a miscarriage in April of 2005 and then i got pregnant again in the June of 2005 i had a bleed so i when to the doctors and he said it was OK and it was i had my baby girl on the 23rd Feb 2006
2007-02-28 23:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh Laura, I'm so sorry, i really hope it all turns out fine for you. Never give up hope. i miscarried twice before conceiving my son, its not anything you've done wrong, sadly its nature. i hold you in my thoughts and wish you luck. xxxx
2007-03-01 02:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by louise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋