I have been seeing someone for 6 years and prior to us getting together he had never had a girlfriend before, but was actively gay for 6 years. He said that all he really wanted was a girlfriend and a family with kids etc, but it never worked out, even though he tried really hard, it was easier to pick up guys. Now, here's the twist, it actually really turns me on that he has had sex with other men, and just thinking about it when we are intimate, makes me really excited if you know what I mean. I ask him questions about what he's done but he gets annoyed and says he doesn't want to relive that life..is this normal for me to be attracted to the gay side of my now hetero partner?
2007-02-28 21:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by Jamie 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's probably just the thrill of thinking you had what it takes to change a guy's sexual orientation. But you haven't...he's not hetero, he's still gay or bisexual. Good luck to you both.
2007-02-28 21:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For years it has been a turn-on for men fantasizing about two women having a go at it in the sack, and quite recently I heard something about what you are saying now.
What I am saying, I guess, is that I don't see why men should have a monopoly on that behavior, although to be quite honest, until recently, when I heard about this, I thought women would be so turned off by this behavior.
I would imagine though that you should continue your fantasy without having to make him relive a life he obviously wants to forget; it would make him uncomfortable. I am a male so I don't know how women are supposed to feel, but I would bet that many women feel the same as you do. If they are honest, you will see the answers soon.
2007-03-01 05:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
~~I think that, for some, sexuality has no gender and knowing that; we think about what others may feel. Many women get turned on by homosexual activities between two men, just like men do about two women!!~~
2007-03-01 05:26:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you're attracted to the straight side of your bi-sexual partner.
2007-03-01 05:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're only attracted to him, I don't see the harm.
2007-03-01 05:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Need to change your name to "Twisted Sister"
2007-03-01 05:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by irmaynerds 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you're both happy there should be no problem
2007-03-01 06:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal to you. Good luck!
All the best!/
2007-03-01 05:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah sure what ever turns you on turns you on
2007-03-01 05:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have fun and enjoy, its ur life. :)
2007-03-01 05:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by flower19602003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋