What Makes A 30 Year Old Married Woman Want To Push Sexual Boundries?

Question

I have been married to my wife for ten years and have had a really great sex life with my wife. Recently her need to experiment sexually has grown. Normally we just communicate and talk and have “Dirty Sex” and talk to each other about having sex with other people but that has grown. We have started having sex with a couple we know on a regular basis. This isn’t the problem. She wants to take this even further and start having sex with strangers and me to find strange women ect. Her need to push sexual boundaries is growing at a high rate of speed and we both have agreed that this behavior is not healthy. During the course of our ten years of Marriage she says she has felt this way but has managed to stay faithful but has since only been able to communicate to me her real desires. Now I know what half of you are thinking, she was probably molested. She swears up and down she was not. She was how ever promiscuous during High School, and lived with just her mother. If there are any psychiatrist out there or anyone who thinks they can offer me an educated opinion please I’m listening.

Answer 1

if you want just an educated opinion, your not going to get any hits. but here's my uneducated opion, me and my husband have been married 10 years, he'll come home early and we'll joke around that sancho just slipped out the back door, we like different things and dirty talk, so far only with each other. we both agreed that if one of us is going to cheat, there's nothing or noone that's going to stop us. but we just choose not to. if she's going to be with someone else, you can't stop her, just make sure her bags are packed when she does and tell her this. or give her a chance, i know it's hard hearing this after 10 years of marriage.

Answer 2

This is the closest i get to an educated opinion. Men reach there sexual peak in there late teens or early 20s where a woman's sexual peak is in her late 20's or early 30's. this will pass soon so don't get too hung up on it. i know it is hard but to not loose your moral stance on the issue.
Hope all works out,
Bonnie

Answer 3

I am not a professional but s ex with strangers will mess up your marriage and it looks like you have agreed it is OK to cheat.

Women in their thirties are hot but promiscuity is something else.......

And I don't think anything you written would lead me to believe she was molested.

Answer 4

It's a hormones thing. At that age she just wondering if she did everything in her life or could she had done better. Is the grass greener on the other side.