How do you handle an unfaithful husband who is cheating and thinks you don't know?

Answer 1

Tell him you know...

Answer 2

You are worth more than this, and deserve so much better in your life. You know the answer to your question--if you have definite proof, then confront him with your proof and tell him you will not be treated like a carpet by anyone, and that you fully intend to file for divorce on the grounds of his adulterous behaviour. Don't let this guy treat you like this, don't put up with it anymore--have a 'zero policy' towards unfaithfulness from now on--show people--especially men--that you are strong and not going to be putting up with this. The action you take from this moment onwards will either give him the green light to carry on with his behaviour whilst with you, or it will make him think of the consequences of his actions, and hopefully he will stop what he is doing...but i doubt it though, once a cheater, always a cheater. As i said at the beginning, you deserve better...but only YOU can make it better. Best of luck:-)

Answer 3

It really depends on what you want or what you feel you can do about it.

But if it was me, i would put all his stuff together and SHOVE it into plastic bin bags and throw it out of the house and change the locks when he is out. Call the police if he continues to try and get back into the house.

When things are calm talk to him, that is if you want to. But you need to make some sort of stand for yourself to show him that you will not be treated like this. How can he start to resepct you, when you dont/wont respect yourself by letting him get away with this and letting him have his cake and eat it. DONT. You are worth more than a man who seems to think its okay to betray your wife. He is a loser, get rid of him, enjoy your life. x

Answer 4

I would have fun with this one get damning evidence and let the good times roll do a dinner party or just a get together and when the right moment pops up tell everyone who is there you have an announcement to make then spill the beans and watch him squirm the dirty devil good luck and i hope you get through this ok be strong for you :)

Answer 5

I wasn't married but, I was in a long long relationship and he cheated on me. Blah blah... So what you do is get a disposable camera from Walgreen and follow his a** . If he cheating they going to make a mistake and be in the public take your pictures. And one day make a nice just for two dinner if you have kids, take to grandma's.. When he comes homee y'all have dinner take him up stair to a warm bubble bath and go change into something exotic, get hom out of the tub and role play with him tie him down to the bed and give it to him like you have never did in your before, and in the morning have the pictures next to head in bed with f u note. Girl leave his a** no man worth Grey hair.

Answer 6

If you give him enough rope he will hang himself. In other words keep quiet, gather evidence (phone bills, copy emails, pictures if you can with the other woman) then when you have a load of evidence file for divorce. Make sure you do the right thing despite wanting to get back at him.

Answer 7

That depends how you feel about it.
If you know you can never forgive him for this then throw him out and find a new man.
Maybe you could talk to him and tell him you know find out his reasons for cheating in the first place and if he is willing to end it for the sake of your marriage, if not then you know where you stand and its time to move on. if he agrees to end it to sort out your marital problems then maybe some councelling would help.
Its gonna be hard but your marriage is not over if you both dont want it to be good luck xx

Answer 8

You women are really something!!!!! Everobody is shouting "Divorce him !", "Cut his p...s !" and bla, bla, bla....

Don't you all girls wonder ? Doesn't she wonder ? Why is she staying with him if she knows that he is cheating ?

There MUST be a reason for this. It may be:

1) She is waitng for him to get bored with the new woman and return to her (this is a usual pattern for married men, they get bored quikly and return to the security that their women provides)
2) She needs him for a number of reasons (protection, money, social image etc)
3) She wants her children (if there are any) to grow up with their daddy
4) He is great in bed (rare among married couples, but still a possibility)
4) .... and a series of other possible reasons

If none of the above reasons apply, then she would be gone a long time ago!!!!!!!

Please women. Think logically and find out the real reason that hides behind all human behaviors!!!!!

Answer 9

Find a way to catch him out and then when he knows that you know, confront him. Then decide if you want to be with him any more and if not file for divorce. Cheating is inexcusable in my opinion. Good luck, its scary stuff.

Answer 10

men like these are rats!! i have found numbers in my husbands phone, he denied he even knew who they are. i text these women and it turns out hes been getting their numbers in pubs, they are in relationships so i dont think hes cheated. how degrading is it. answer to your question, infidelelty can never be forgiven, once a cheat or liar, always a cheat or liar. does he lie to you about anything else?its hard because you love him but you deserve better girl.hand over the divorce papers and see his sorry **** in court!!!

Answer 11

Get all the legal stuff sorted before you do anything.....

Don't let him know that you know..

Sort out the house, try and get him to spend everything he has, cash in his insurance policies, stash all his money, remove him from the mortgage.........do whatever you can and then announce that you are leaving him and you want him out!

When he asks why just ' because you are are a dirty, lying bastard'