Is it normal for a Adopted 28 year old to still be living with her adopted daddy?

Question

Ok I am seeing this guy. He is 43 and lives 2 hrs from me. I have fallen in love with him, But He tells me his adopted daughter and her daughter live with him. But when I do a people search. It says the adopted daughter is 39 year Old and not 28 like he told me she was... Do I believe him or head for the Door? He says he is a Preacher and we pray together often. Should I trust him or trust the internet for the ages of his adopted children. He also says he has a son that is 31 but he is adopted too... but He is only 43....Help please

Answer 1

If you feel that he is treating you with love and really cares for you, why not give him a chance?

If you still have questions about the age diff in the internet and feel that he is not telling you the truth, then ask him why did he do that?

Just sit him down after dinner and lounge in front of the cosy living area and casually talk to him about other things before you go into details later. Make him feel comfortable and relaxed so as not to put him on guard on what you are going to ask him. Remember to talk things nicely and do not shout or show temper. Try to understand his reasons.

Answer 2

Something is not right, that's for sure! Have you not asked more questions? Like when did he adopt these kids, and how old were they when he did adopt them. Do the math. As it is, if he adopted the girl when she was a baby, the guy you like was only 15 years old! I would wonder why he adopted such an older child. You do have a right to know, it's someone your interested in dating. On the Internet, you never can tell to the heck you truly are speaking too, so make it your job to find out. If the female is 39, you really need to RUN!!!

Answer 3

Head for the door. Mainly because you don't know this guy at all. And what's all the stuff about adopted? Adoptive families don't really use the word all that much to describe each other. His "daughter" sounds just about the right age for a wife. Unless he adopted the daughter when he was at age 15 and the son at age 12. Preacher for a living? Where??

RUN for the door. And redefine "love" for your own good and safety.

Answer 4

so why doesn't he introduce u to his adopted children? u will tell the difference between 39 and 28 for sure. but to me it seems your man is having so much fun right now

Answer 5

It does cost alot of money and there's a waiting checklist yet in many circumstances they supply babies to couples no longer single adult men. you may could bypass a police clearance and all that and with the quantity of hours you artwork might you have time to shield the babies? a majority of those issues would be considered throughout the time of the agencies.

Answer 6

Go with your gut. Don't try and reason things out in your head. Just go with your gut feeling. You know more about what is going on then what you are writing. Do whatever your female intution is telling you that you need to do.

Answer 7

I dont reckon they are his kids. I reckon they are his pleasure when you are not there. Why else all the secrets. Preacher, sometimes people just shouldn't be and from what you told us I would run. So RUN FORREST!!!!

Answer 8

I would leave once a liar always a liar
run and dont look back seems too odd

Answer 9

you could always check in the births and marriages.

It all sounds a bit dodgy to me.

Maybe he wants to adopt you?????

Answer 10

this sittuission has perververt weitten all over it,if i were tiu yiu i would back my stuff and get awat from herer.