I've asked so many questions on here but I love to hear others views. Me and my ex of 7 years broke up and he moved 2000 miles away..Well, he moved before we broke up..I know there isn't another woman. I am pregnant with his child and we are very young...22 & 23. We had our wedding planned before the baby. Dr. said I would never be able to have kids..my ex wanted one and I ended up getting pregnant. We wasn't trying because of what the Dr. told me. He was very excited while I was kind of depressed because I wanted to be married and have my degree. Now, I wish he comes back and I know alot of people thinks that is stupid. We had a pretty good relationship, His father walked out on him as a baby. He tells me he misses me and loves me but picks stupid fights..Does distance really make the heart grow fonder?? I told him last night we shouldn't talk until we clear our heads..Has this every happened to anyone?
2007-02-28 19:19:21 · 4 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We was planning on moving there before we broke up..We already had our wedding mostly planned. I don't know if he is scared. I tell him how I feel but he is closing up to me. He agreed tonight that We shouldn't talk for a bit because he feels like it would be good for "us"...which I agree.
2007-02-28 19:23:04 · update #1
Hi Angel, It sounds like he is a litlte scary about you having his baby. This baby is GOD sent to both of you. You said your doctor said you would never have a baby. I bet the doctor has egg on his face when you told him... This is a second chance for you. If your X decides not to have anymore to do with you and the baby, you need to move on with your life and fine someone who will love both of you,like it should me. You will have someone else who will depend on you to take care of him or her and this is the most important duty of all. Be a good mama and take care of yourself and baby who will be here shortly. Early Congrates and have a healthy and happy little one... A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-02-28 19:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really look into some form of counselling it sounds to me that he wants to get back together with you but he may be scared of the whole commitment issue. He may doing what his father did because well he figures he grew up without a dad why should his own son be any different. You said he wanted a baby well you got pregnant and now he lives in another state. He needs to grow up this is his child. Explain to him that God works in mysterious ways and well he has given us this miracle when all the Dr's said you couldn't have a baby well this should show him that you are meant to be with each other move to where he is if you can a baby needs his dad. God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-02-28 19:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your baby needs a father and if you think he will make a good father that is most important. If he isn't abusive to you I feel you should consider getting back together.
Also, maybe then you will be able to finish your education.
The stupid fights should lessen the more you both mature.
No, distance does not make the heart grow fonder. Possibly for the first few months, but after that you will forget about each other.
2007-02-28 19:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Incognito 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a marriage counsellor. Have you tried talking to him? Does he listen when you talk to him? If not, you really need a counsellor.
I know it tough decision but you really need to communicate. Ask him what his future plans are (if he has any at all) and listen to him (don't yell). Good luck.
2007-02-28 19:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋