i have problems when it comes to sex..
everytime im about to have sex i cant get it to grow becuase im just way to shy and no matter how much i try it just doesnt go up..
any ideas how i can come over this or what i can do?
2007-02-28 19:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by Fluffy 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
if you want somthing to grow you have to water it
2007-02-28 19:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you're comfortable enough with her let her know that you are feeling shy, maybe a little intimidated. Most girls are cool with it as long as you're honest. That lets them know that the problem isn't with them and she can take control which takes some of the pressure off of you. You just need to get it hard enough to get it in there and then you'll be good to go. Once you do then every time afterwords you won't have that problem. Hey man I've been there myself, especially when the girl is beautiful and you really want things to go well. Relax, open up with her and things should go well. Good luck!!
2007-03-01 03:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're letting your mind get in the way of your body. Too much thinking will hurt everything from a golf swing to your little "mini me" problem. Seriously, if you keep thinking that you have a problem, of course you'll have trouble.
You said "no matter how much I try"....stop "trying" to do anything. Just let it happen. Here's my suggestion. When you're with a woman, go down on her or suck her titties or whatever floats your boat. Watch how your actions affect that girl....If you're doing it right, seeing her face get all twisted up with those eyes rolling back should definitely put all that shyness to rest, because now, you understand the power that you hold.
If you're having problems making the eyes roll back....well..then that's the next question you're posting, I guess.....good luck!
2007-03-01 03:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by rastabudd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap her on the face with it a few times.... If that doesnt work then slam it against the wall six times and add a jalapeno pepper to it and put it away..... It will grow in no time...
If not then just water it daily and keep it in sunlight...
2007-03-01 03:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny Lincoln Park 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to clam down...Get to know a girl ...and wait until you feel comfortable. Watch a few porns to get the idea...of how it works...Most of all don't be affraid ...the woman will help!!!
Sorry i m a woman---but i just had to take this one...
2007-03-01 03:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa Kay 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too much
Use foreplay
Watch porn
Try it with person you love and are attracted to.
2007-03-01 03:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy dude. What is there to be shy about.
2007-03-01 03:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Victor C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her (or him, you didnt state which way your bread is buttered) to suck you off.
your shyness should go away fairly quickly.
2007-03-01 03:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jester 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start with foreplay, thatll get it up fast.
2007-03-01 03:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should visit a doctor
2007-03-01 03:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by Rounash 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋