marriages between people from different culture/language/country/race....?

Question

how does it work out to be?

Answer 1

Communication is the biggest issue, not just because of language differences but cultural, religious, social and everything else you can think off. Everybody translates the significance of things into what it would mean in their culture and assumes that their partner understands things the same way. Little things can very quickly become big issues if you allow them to. If you both are in love you can surely overcome all of the difficulties but it takes more work than a relationship with somebody of similar background. It can also bring greater rewards as it gives a very up close and personal insight into other cultures.
Just to show how big differences can be bridged I am very happily married, I am English, 53 years old and my wife is a 21 year old Russian. We currently live and work in Thailand. So we not only have culture gap but age gap to overcome and a foreign environment for both of us to deal with.

Answer 2

marriage, between two persons belonging to different cultures, must be viewed , with realities, in mind. It is not that, they alone live together after marriage. There is langauge problem with , sarroundings, when , the parner has to keep quiet for a long time with gestures. The eitherside relations, very unlikely to allow a foreign sujbect , among themselves, which is a rule position , wjhen u consider , human civilizations ,,alien is accepted slowly. it is more of instinct than, logic. . exceptions r there. the sarroundings, and environment has to support. which usually not. Both parners encounter , many unforeseen problems, which are not in their original agenda.Marriage is not an interpersonal problem to adjust their lving styles. . It is something tied with the societyand daily confronations, with relations, fds, and many otehrs , has to be adjusted, beyond one.s comprehension. The gt failure formulae in the world is , to please all, which is not possible. Hence, in Hindu society, they have adopted marriage among internal family members, like neice, and nephew etc. In this case, there is no adjustment with the other areas etc. These marriage, lasted queit long, and it can be a n eye opener. The system of Hindu marriage and, family system is akin to other oriental counties, but among them, India is ancient. It can be easily understood, that Indian, influence has fallen on other countries. Marriage, between different languages, and country people is nice to look at, but very difficult to pratice. The, initial glitters soon fade away to the newly wed., and hard realities come into play.There will be committed number of enemies, to one of the members of the marriage, as they have to live, atleast with one parent group, soon or later. it is Ok, with u, but it is injustice to ask everybody to set right their minds according ur wish. No body is there to concur , our feelings, and this world is having as many kinds of ideas as there are heads.

Answer 3

OK this is from a personal experience.
I was in a 10 year relationship, although it didn't work out in the end, it was a combination of many things which we won't get into.

The problem i found was you are two people that speak different languages, It matters not how fluent one or the other is. To me, it is so important to be able to communicate at all levels, if you can't explain yourself properly or have a deep conversation then its difficult. To have a perfect relationship you need to be the best of friends.

Answer 4

properly, that's an thrilling twist. I on no account knew there replaced right into a sparkling regulation created for a state disallowing blended marriages. i could trust this basically because of the fact the blending of races can produce some terrible features in a new child they convceive. of direction, all this has to do with suitable upbringing too. we are a melting pot and blended relationships will proceed. Who am I to assert. There could be some marvelous marriages accessible with marvelous toddlers that grew as much as be very fantastic adults. There are Christian marriages too and that they decide for to stay by skill of the guidelines from the bible too. that could properly be a marvelous marriage too.

Answer 5

It all depends on how much are they inclined to know and learn from each other. It may be easy for 2 different language people but for 2 different cultutre/race....it can be a tough thing to manage

Answer 6

they have to face lot of challenges and problems.if they really love each other and have mutual adjustment, cultural and other disparities do not make a problem.

Answer 7

I think it would be ok if you loved each other. The hard part might be how to bring up your children.

Answer 8

I f you are open minded and trust each other , this is not big issue.

Answer 9

if there is love and hope about your life together it just can be amazing to learn about the other one...;)

Answer 10

it can be if mutual understanding