Shes a divorcee that appears to be repeating the same behavioral pattern that led to the collapse of her first marriage which essentially was a sham. Passive-agressive this one,, almost about to qualify for 1st class charlatan and liar. But yet she keeps staying and I keep staying wondering if the good will conquer.???
2007-02-28 18:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by huck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Shes aware of the resentment
2007-02-28 19:01:33 · update #1
forget her 1st relationship, don't compare it to yours, if you are not happy then get out of the situation.
whilst you stay in this unhappy situation, you are wasting opportunities to meet someone nice and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2007-02-28 19:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by looby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A couple of things first : If you know her behavioural pattern is the cause of divorce why did you hook up with her anyway. second : if she is the liar and cheater you make her out to be you are most defiantly wrong good will not conquer it will fail.
Love conquers all ,good intentions ,will and thoughts just get pushed aside she's playing you like harp she knows about her problems and she does not want to change . if she doesn't talk to her let her know now ! that she got to start changing or start walking !!!
2007-02-28 19:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by crash man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people sabotage their relationships because they have a hard time of letting go of the past. As for the staying part, I like to call this "The Comfort Zone" It's easy to get into a relationship hard to get out of them and sometimes harder to get over them.
Just don't short change yourself. Don't settle with what you can get, only settle with what you deserve.
2007-02-28 19:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Thought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is...WHY DO YOU LET HER STAY or WHY DON"T YOU leave??????????????
She has a pattern. Why be part of it????
2007-02-28 19:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask what her problem is?tell her if shes not happy why are you together?
2007-02-28 19:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋