My daughter's father is jealous of me getting married to someone else and cant stop sending me insultive text messages, i replied to some but i dont think i want to do this cause i have better things to do, should i just ignour him?
2007-02-28 18:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by gemini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ignore it,be happy!
2007-02-28 18:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ignore him
dont reply to any msg anymore and go on with ur future !
sometimes its hard for people to understand that its not only the past but that there is a future in which they arent the nr.1 !
all the best for ur marriage !!! x
2007-02-28 20:06:38 · answer #2 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the messages...delete them without reading them. It sounds like he is hurting and is taking it out on you. Give him time and until then do not get drawn into his pain by responding to his messages. It will just get worse. Congrats to you and Good Luck
2007-02-28 19:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and his texts, he will soon grow tired and give up. If the texts become threatening however, keep the texts and report to the police--he may find himself with the charge of text stalking.
2007-02-28 19:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Report his text's to the Police. Yes, you may have responded to some but this was in retaliation. Don't let anyone continue to harass you and it does not make a difference that he is your ex.
2007-02-28 19:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by benn26k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is the best solution. Once he sees that you dont pay attention to him no more he will eventually stop. If not call the cops on him, jk. But do try to avoid contact with him.
2007-02-28 19:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, now it's better for you to ignore him, but don't forget he's your daughter's father, so, after some time, when he'll have overcome his jealousy, try to have good relations with him.
2007-03-01 08:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by Evelina M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you reply, the longer it will continue, as it will just fuel the situation, he knows he is getting to you, like ant bullying tactics, ignoring is better if you can, as its the reaction they crave, if you dont react, it will eventually stop, you could always have a new sim card
2007-02-28 20:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him he is hurting and nothing will change that but what you did is good, letting go is quite difficult, but at one point in time we have to let go of that won't build, that is not good. not healthy. i suggest you change lines and stop replying it only show that you are sympathising with him. stop it, it won't help you on any way move on with your life and id you feel that the next marriage is good for you and your daughter let nothing hold you back, not even your own emotions don't let them. many people are in broken ad dead relationships because they can't just let go and in the end they are dead to love, broken in spirit with nothing to look foward to.
2007-02-28 19:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should just ignore him. Your relationship is over and if he can't move on whilst you can, then that's his problem not yours. Don't let this spiteful person ruin your excitement about your big day. Ignore him and don't even read he msgs he sends. Just delete them and forget about him.
Enjoy your wedding day and don't let this ruin it for you.
2007-02-28 19:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely ignore him, my ex used to do the same thing when i started seeing my boyfriend. at first i used to text bk just being as nasty but it just made him worse. ignore him and he will soon get sick. if it gets really bad change your number xx
2007-02-28 19:59:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋