I get embarassed when I see white girls chasing down black guys. whats up with that anyway? the worst i saw was in england. are black guys really bigger and better?
2007-02-28 18:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by mariabianchi 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
like they say...
"...once you've gone black, there ain't going back!..."
2007-02-28 18:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Arez 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Its shameful when any woman pursues any man regardless of color. Women of class allow themselves to be approached, we do not flirt outrageously, and we definitely don't make the first obvious move.
But to the white/black issue... People always lust after something new and "exotic". Maybe they find these men curiously attractive, a taboo... it could be that they have dated black men before and have had better experiences with blacks than their own race.
I'm a black woman that prefers to date outside of my race. I have nothing against a well dressed, educated, good looking black man, but that combination isn't easily found, and I'm picky. I have no idea about the bigger and better, and only someone of shallow interests would actually care about that anatomy. But I've heard that if he looks good on the dance floor and has really good moves then those moves can be pretty beneficial in the bedroom. But I wouldn't know, and really don't care.
2007-02-28 23:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if black guys ARE bigger or better, but girls chasing after them solely because of that needs to stop. All the crap they give the REST of us about "wanting a nice man" or "falling in love with the man of my dreams", and they have no right going after a guy just because of his bigger junk.
2007-02-28 18:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you embarrassed for them? They probably dated outside their race before and maybe that was the reason they were able to choose the black men over white. Coming from a family with various race and ethnicity, I am happy I belong to such family. I look for personality and good moral character in people not for a skin color. Don’t turn stereotypes into facts when you see black men or anybody from a background different than yours. go out and experiment being with different people instead of wondering about it.
2007-02-28 18:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Ally cat 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Because girls at clubs are there for attention so they run after the people who are most likely to give it to them.
And why are you embarrassed? You're an individual. You shouldn't care what other people do with their lives.
2007-03-01 06:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its because they probably believe "the rumor" or they are just curious and want to try something different but then they find out that a man is a man no matter what color his skin is.
2007-02-28 18:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by violet 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO! It's a stereotype,but most white girls believe it and try to find out.8 times out of 10 curiosoty kills the cat.....
2007-02-28 20:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Direktor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not just that. A friend of mine (white, italian) married an african boy. She says there's more. They are sweeter, more passionate, more romantic.
Pleasingly different.
I wish I had a second life! :-)
2007-02-28 20:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by Silvia N 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would have assumed it was the other way around. I"m really surprised. We believe in "racial pride" so this goes against our concepts of self love.
Note: racial pride is not rooted in racism but self love/preservation
This is clearly the behavior a "few" of the undesirables. Every race has them.
2007-02-28 20:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Because it's forbidden. They want it now because they now they wont get it afterwards. Also it might have to do with the size too.
2007-02-28 18:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by James W 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Taboo, the unknown, p*ss off daddy or an ex-boyfriend, who knows.
2007-02-28 18:35:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋