For every one that's in love?

Question

How do you know if it's love?
How do you know if he is the right one for you?
I have a great guy.He treats me and our baby like queens,he pleases our every wish.But i feel that our relationship started kinda fast (i got pregnant when we were 2gether like 6 months) we didn't plan on having a family, but i don't regret having my baby.Another thing i hardly see him he is always working and when he is off we bearly talk. i guess my Q: is, is it love ?

Answer 1

Ask your heart.
No one can answer this but you.
But if theres a problem in communication, try fixing that. Set up dates every week where you must meet no matter how busy. Open up comminication lines.
Start talking & encourage him also to open up. Tell your feelings to one another.
Is your baby small, do you get time to relax & pamper yourself, even a little.
Unplanned babies are ok. But the point is what now. Look ahead not behind.

Answer 2

Everyone is different so there's no single recipe for all. It looks like this guy loves you and your baby very much if you say he treats you both like queens. It's hard to find a guy who's really that dedicated. In my opinion, it doesn't matter if you've been with the person 3 months, or 3 years. Sometimes you can get to know a person better by being knowing them only for weeks than for years. I know it happened to me that I found out my long time friends turned out to be fake. The question is how do you feel about him? What do you feel when you don't see him for a long time and then he comes home? He seems like the non-talkative type but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Maybe he feels that his actions are louder than words. If you're unsure just talk to him. Good luck

Answer 3

This is going to sound so wrong but: Love is not the only thing that makes a marriage work...In the begnnign attraction etc is cool and it makes you love them...but when it comes to marriage you have to use your head. All a person needs in life to make for a good marriage is these three things:
Does he have the exact same morals as you
Is he attractive enough for you
Do you have similar images of what you want life to be like?
If you both share these 3 things then you are meant for eachother!!!!
It's time for you to awaken him and let him know you need him.
I have had to reawaken my marriage so many times...You have to tell him EXACTLY how you feel....that you are affraid that your love is fading. If he is the man you say he is...he will understand... and things will get better...I don't mean to say BUg him but keep telling him until he listens..Don't postpone telling him either....because the farther you get aprt the harder it is to find love again(but even then its not to late)
Plan events togther...talk about when you first got togther-look at pictures....Most of all spend atleast one night everyother week alone togther(without kid)!!! These things are VERY important!!

Answer 4

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year and have been friends for a long time before that.

We talk about our future together... marriage, kids, jobs, money, house, etc. A LOT of things. We plan on getting married after college.

We know we are right for each other because we have talked about everything. We are very serious about our future. We love each other very much.

I am a virgin. I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...


Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Communication is very important in a relationship. You have to be able to talk to him about your feelings. And if he loves you, he will listen to you and atleast consider your feelings. It takes 2 for a relationship to work and takes 2 to put in the effort to make it last.

Answer 5

I would definitely say beyond the shadow of a doubt that NO you do not love this man. In fact I think it's painfully obvious that you don't have the slightest clue on God's green Earth about what love even is. You're absolutely clueless, you're emotionally numb and that isn't going to change.

Stay single, you're one of those people who simply doesn't have the mental capacity to handle a relationship; "Love" will forever be a very foreign thing to you. I feel sorry for your boyfriend, poor guy.

Answer 6

you know when you still get that butterfly feeling when you know hes coming home, or when you can take a drive together and not really have a destination but find yourself in some romantic spot that only you 2 think you know about, or when you think the same thing and not even know until one of you starts talking about it, sometimes you dont need to talk but just be.

Answer 7

Unfortunately no one can really answer what is love. because you feel it. The matrix said it the best "when your in love you just know it balls to bones". You feel affectionate and you want to spend your life with the person sorry but thats the best answer I can offer.

Answer 8

(1) When your hearts keeps pounding when you meet him.
(2) When holding his hand, there is "electric current:" feeling (it happened to me that is how I know he is the man to marry)
(3) It depends...very hard to say...maybe?? My advice is "only you know the answer, just follow your heart" dear.
Good luck.

Answer 9

Could be, but you barely talk. If he's interested in your relationship, he's got to talk! You both do!

Answer 10

No, because you are asking. You'd know.