that u dont see them in a sexually way ?
and that sex with them is not enjoyable?
that youy really just not feeling the vibe that thay are putting down ?
and its not because of their hight?
2007-02-28 18:14:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why are you sleeping with a friend you don't find sexually attractive? but since you are obviously already in the predicament, and you have led them on to think you are way more into them than you are (dog), you now have to be an adult and act accordingly. make sure the conversation is about how you feel and not about any shortcomings you think they have. tell them that even though as a friend you still want to be that you don't feel that connectedness with them and therefore you are shortchanging them because you aren't being honest about how you feel. this may sting now but it is better than wasting their time and letting their feelings grow on something unfounded.
2007-02-28 18:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by whitney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to stay friends with them, I guess you best be honest. This will probably be hard to tell them without hurting their pride. I am sure they will feel rejected in some way, anyone would. So you need to explain to them that you feel having sex with them is interfering with your friendship. That you also feel your friendship is much more important than being sex partners, and you feel you can't be both emotionally. That sex between friends makes it hard on communication between the two of you, and it just doesn't feel right to you. You also don't want to lose their friendship! Good luck!
2007-03-01 03:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% agree with whitney. why did you experiment with sex in the beginning??? when you talk to your friend, make sure you're sincere and sorry... just make it seem like everything has been a mistake on YOUR part and you're sorry... this will likely be able to save the friendship... i feel that since you're in this kind of situation, you should put a stop on it now and don't procrastinate any longer... be a man and face solve your problems... may be painful for you, but it's the least you can do now... gd luck...
2007-03-01 03:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋