if you were 32 and feel that you need to change your life would you do it?

Question

i have a credit dept of $6000. not married no commitments with any one just feel that if i leave the state i will be better. my family will think im crazyif i do that, i dont hate my job i just i just feel that i need to change. if i leave it i would like to come back to it. but im afreid to do it. i feel im not succesfull because of the life i live, i need tochange my life 360 degrees meet other people and i dont now how to do it.help on some advice

Answer 1

go somewhere for a month or two, if you don't like it you can come back and appreciate and enjoy more what you had before, if you do like it and stay with your new life, it means you did the right thing; anyway, you win!
Good luck!

Answer 2

This is a very difficult question to answer. Here are suggestions to consider before making or not making the decision.
1. Living too close to family members can sometimes be a headache especially if a particular member controls or criticizes your every move.
2. You don't need anyone's permission.
3. Maybe furthering your education or choosing a different career is a choice but take some tests which are offered free, first. The tests will help you figure out what kinds of things you like to do best.
4. It is very stressful just picking up and moving to a new location and not knowing anyone but then again, some people handle challenges such as this, much easier than others.
5. Sometimes people living in small towns are glad to leave and do not ever return because of bad memories.
6. You may want to seek the advice of clergy or a counselor. There is nothing wrong in doing either.
7. Whatever you decide, I wish you the very best and you can do
whatever you set your mind to. Do not let anyone discourage you.

Answer 3

Personal experience---My husband did the same at 32. it was not easy the whole way, but he is a much better person now. First off, try to pay your debt. I know it's hard, but the feeling of freedom is worth it. Then move if you want! Do a ton of online research about the place you choose and enjoy. I was very skeptical about leaving the US, ans struggled at first, but now there is such a sense of accomplishment in being strong.
Now, it was a bit easier for me as a married girl, along for the ride, but my husband is so glad he changed his life. Remember that 32 is young.
Look for jobs online, or work like a dog and save enough to volunteer somewhere else for a bit. People in New Orleans or here in Thailand need folks like you.
Good luck to you!

Answer 4

You are still young. Change is a good thing. I say you should go for it. Debt is not an issue, it can always be resolved. Take care of your mental, physical, and emotional health first. Moving seems like something that would help your health. Make sure you have a back up plan if moving doesn't work out for you.

Best of luck! And it is never to late to change, if you don't you might regret it for the rest of your life!

P.S.-You are having problems because of the life you are living now...moving would resolve the issue and give you a fresh start!

Answer 5

Work out a step by step plan, starting with paying off your debt, or at least beginning to. Plan to do the move in about a year or so and save money now so you can pay for accommodation short term, transport, food and some furniture (and to keep up the debt repayments).

That will give you a year to figure out where you want to go, what you want to do when you get there (work, leisure, how will you meet people to socialise with etc), where you will live and so on.

Answer 6

What's being 32 got to do with it? If your not happy with your life then do something about it. If your not happy at work, leave. If you feel like you would like to live somewhere else then move. Nothing is stopping you from doing what you want with your life. Start looking into some real estate somewhere you want to live and start looking for your dream job or what it will take to get you there.

Good luck and i hope you find the happiness you're looking for.

Answer 7

i think you should move. go to another state. get away from your family and start fresh. a new place, a new job, new friends. it all sounds so good but trust me, from experience, it's not that easy. the distraction and the excitement of the move is enough to keep you going for awhile once you've made the decision. then, when you get to your new town, it's a new house, job, friends, etc., but your problems are still your problems. you can't run far enough away to get away from yourself. be prepared to face your problems alone if you choose to make a big move like this. it can be done, and it can be done well, but it can also be a disaster, so don't do it if you are just running away from your problems. do it because it's a new adventure and a new opportunity for personal growth and learning. good luck

Answer 8

Don't be afraid to change you will never know what might have happened if you don't try

Answer 9

Just do it!!! A little research and go. If you don't you always be thinking....What if!!!!