my boyfriend keeps saying that the baby isnt his and im 6 months it makes me feel really bad and sad not for me but for the baby why is he denying the baby now he was good about it 3 weeks ago?
2007-02-28 17:01:48 · 20 answers · asked by ashley d 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
He may be in a panic. Hopefully, this won't last. If he says it again, just say firmly: YOU ARE! Remain calm & firm.
2007-02-28 17:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to get a paternity test done... but honestly, if he's not willing to be a decent, stand up guy about this, do you really want him in your baby's life? How will your child feel about having to be forced on his "father" all his life? Being a father has very little to do with genetics and a LOT to do with who's there for your child. A parent is the person who comforts you when you're sick, soothes you when you have nightmares, bandages your boo boos, supports you in your dreams, and teaches you right from wrong. If your boyfriend isn't willing to be that person, then he's not a Dad... he's just a sperm donor, and you'd both be better off without him.
2007-03-01 01:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just getting nervous about the reality of responsibilty..I am assuming you are both young? Don't let it stress you out..after the baby is born - get a paternity test done - whatever the results may be - just remember...any guy can become a father but, it takes a real man to be a Daddy! Good luck to you and the little one!
2007-03-01 01:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as the baby is born have a paternity test dont than you will know for sure, but if you're 6 months you're probably starting to get a little nervous. Is it possible that he's scared and freaking out? He may mellow, but get the test anyway so you can be sure.
2007-03-01 14:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by skylark455st2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. When your baby is born, get a test.
I had this with my sons dad. Even the last time i saw him, he still told me he wasn't his, yet wont pay for the test or anything. (our son is 3 1/2 and is a spitting image of him!)
Guys can be very insecure. He may be scared of the responsibility and trying to get out of it the easy way?
If i was you, and its continual, tell him to stop saying it or leave. you don't need that kind of pressure.
Good Luck with your baby :o)
2007-03-01 01:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAUSE HE STARTED TO THINK ABOUT THE RESPONSIBILITY
THAT THE BABY CAN BRING ON HIM. TELL HIM IT TAKES TWO AND IF HE KEEPS ON AFTER THE BABY IS BORN AND HE IS STILL DENYING GET A DNA TEST TO PROVE IT WILL MAKE HIM LOOK THAT CRAPE IN COURT IF IT COMES OUT THAT THE BABY IS HIS
2007-03-01 02:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by ebabybrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is ready for a paternity test. If he is, then have the test done once the baby is born and the truthu would be out.
If he is not ready for it, then ask him why he wants to run away from truth
2007-03-01 01:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by 2_b_or_not_2_b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the jerk, forget the paternity test.
Break up with him, and start making arrangements to give your baby up for adoption to a two parent family equipped to raise a child.
It's the best, most responsible, most loving thing you can do for your child.
2007-03-01 04:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by woo_jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he still your boyfriend if he's saying those things? Drop the jerk. After he gets served with orders for a paternity test and it comes back as his, he'll have his difinitive answer--but not you to kick around any more.
2007-03-01 01:06:26 · answer #9 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn him into the child's support office and make him pay. But request for a DNA to be done. If the child is going to be on medicaid then it will pay for the DNA test to be done.
2007-03-05 00:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by wetcat2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So wait for teh baby to be born and go for a DNA test. He sounds like a real loser...
2007-03-01 18:40:31 · answer #11 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋