My best friend has asked me to have sex with him, but I have never been with a man before only women,
I want to do it, but I don't know if i should or how to do it.
Can anyone help me with a bite of information on what to do and how to do it or any sites witch might help me?
2007-02-28 16:13:23 · 12 answers · asked by Hellspawn 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Keep in mind that you didn't really know what to do the first time with a women. Try to relax (both of you) and just start with the understanding that you both have to be comfortable with anything that happens. If one of you changes your mind about an action or position, make it understood beforehand that it is okay to stop if you feel uncomfortable doing anything. If this is something you will want to continue (depending on the outcome), there will be plenty of time to experiment with things you don't do the first time. Just take it slow and remember to stay relaxed. If he is experienced with other men, suggest lots of massage and touching to relax you. This may surprise you when his touch begins to take away your nervousness and replaces it with passion. Also keep in mind that you may be playing with different parts than what you are used to. Take the extra time to clean yourself inside and out. Maybe even start with a shower for two. Hope this helps. P.S. Anal will hurt the first time, but this soon yields to amazing pleasure. Just be careful and take it slow. Good Luck with your First time!
2007-02-28 16:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
youre going to have SEX with you best friend JUST because he asked you to? You had better think about this before you screw up biiiiig time.. i know that if i ever found out my fiance was with a man willingly i would kill him.. or at least leave him... so you better figure it out.. make sure youre GAY or into the type of ladies that are into bisexual guys before you do that.. because.. those types of girls arent that great... :|
by the way.. anal sex HUUUUUUUUUURTS so bad.. every time i have it, i bleed out my booty for 3 minutes and have to sit on the toilet for another 15 minutes or more while crap leaks out my butt... i know its gross and very... graphic but its worth knowing
::::...Oh.. dont listen to TIM.. some people it will just hurt the first time blah blah blah.. but Ive had it around 14 times with my fiance and... EVERY time it feels the same... it feels like theres a sword stuf in you.. and then they push this button on it and a whole bunch of little sharp knives stab outward... I have a 7 month old.. and i will tell you right now it was worse than childbirth
2007-03-01 00:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by Chef Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a wonderful thing to do in life,go for it,what's there to lose since he's your best friend. It will be an intimate one coz the bonding is already there except the human skin is needed to fulfill the unfill one. Let go your anxiety and be natural and let me join you guys,hahahaha. Just kidding! but anyway,you go boy. Life is too short,it's better to do it with your best friend than strangers. At least you are quite safe.Good Luck!!! by the way, what are friends for!
2007-03-01 00:39:58 · answer #3 · answered by javo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with M L. Getting intimate with a close friend could jeopardize the friendship. One person could want more than just a sexual relationship and the other person may not so the friendship sours.
2007-03-01 01:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that lessons can be fun. My wife taught me and helped me through. She loved teaching and I loved learning. It was a lot of fun.
But if you feel you need some book-learnin' before you go in, try the book "The Joy of Gay Sex" (very explicit illustrations).
2007-03-01 00:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to experiment wiht your best friend? I mean, you do have to consider that sex can ruin a friendship. I'm not saying don't, just take that into consideration and choose carefully.
2007-03-01 00:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by M L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend gay, or does he just want to experiment? I really wouldn't do it with a friend because it could ruin the friendship. Maybe you could rent a gay porn, and watch that together and possible just j/o together.
2007-03-01 05:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do it, then go for it. I would suggest asking him to teach you. If he is your best friend, he knows that you are not experienced and the teaching experience can be very bonding.
2007-03-01 00:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like doing it go ahead. If you are 50:50 then tell him before hand that you may stop if you are not comfortable.
If you are not comfortable with this thought, then do not get into this.
I think you like it. so go ahead.
2007-03-01 01:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.89.com and click on movies than any of the gay movies and you will relise you will be in the s..t.
2007-03-01 01:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋