i wrote him on HIS yim addy to ask about a bill he was supposed to pay the person wrote back saying they took over his email account and they are his new girfreind. Anwyay the person typed a lot faster than my ex, and actually knew how to spell. The person was telling me my ex is having sex with a whole bunch of people and all this. it was really upsetting to me. someone said he coudla been just trying to get even with me but the part i dont understand is that the person was deifnatly not my ex. the typing the spelling the use of vocabulary. none of it was him. wats going on ?
2007-02-28 16:09:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
to the 2nd answerer if its her should i print the transcript and mail it to him so he knosws what she doin behind his back and i can ruin it for her?
2007-02-28 16:14:47 · update #1
Well it could have been one of his friends that did that wrote that to you and he knows all about it. I'd say he's fully aware of it and was trying to mess with you. Because why would his new girlfriend tell about him sleeping around like she's proud of it; that's weird. LOL Don't worry about this creep.
2007-02-28 16:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it might be ex hubby because spell check is everywhere now. So even dummy's can at least spell correctly. But you should be able to notice the wording, does it sound like something your ex would say in the way it was asked, or told. Trust me on this he is not getting laid by a whole bunch of people. Unless he is Brad Pitt and even then no. That response sounds to me like craving for the ex wife and making up stories to get attention. Desperation is sad and annoying isn't it. Good luck to you and try to get this behind you. Dont sweat the small stuff and this is defiantly the small stuff. Wasn't it? ;)
2007-02-28 16:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by stephenmwells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was a friend or maybe it was a girlfriend. Frankly, it's a little weird to have someone else take over an email account when they're often found free.
It's possible your ex told the woman to tell you those things so you would leave him alone for whatever reason. No matter. Unless you have kids or property in dispute, there is little reason to be in contact.
2007-02-28 16:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh..didn't they say that they were your ex's new gf? What's the problem then? Obviously his new gf uses his email and is trying to get under your skin. It's working. Tell her/him/it to pass along the info and save the gossip for other people. His sex life has nothing to do with you anymore and who cares if he's sleeping with other people. This person is trying to get you to act looney over a guy you're not with anymore. Don't fall into the trap and ignore the psycho. Get your bill paid and don't email him/her/it anymore. End of story.
2007-02-28 16:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since he is your ex, it shouldn't matter. But the fact that she says she is his girlfriend, and yet she also states that he is having sex with alot of women, doesn't add up. Why would she tell you that. And why would she still be with him. I just think he might still have feelings for you and is trying to make you jealous. He could very easily get a friend to type that up .
2007-02-28 16:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by southg11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOMEONE is messing with your mind and you are letting them. If you KNOW it is not your ex, then you can also be pretty well assured what is being typed is lies. Let it go--he is your EX--as in past, done, finished. Rise above it.
2007-02-28 16:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOTALLY! Always believe anonymous IMs as TRUTH. Sounds like a good way to go.
2007-02-28 16:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his new girlfriend, she was probably trying to figure out if he was cheating on her with you. She broke into his email to see what he had in there. Either he is cheating on her or she is just paranoid, either way I would stay out of it. Let them sort ot out between themselves, you don't owe either one of them anything and they are not going to listen to you anyway.
2007-02-28 16:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his account got stolen? Maybe he logged on at a library and forgot to logout?
2007-02-28 16:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sorcha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off his knob and feed it to him and bottle up his tears and drink them 5 days later and you will have consumed his soul until you pass a #2
2007-02-28 16:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Colin C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋