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I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half now, and we're both in love. I can completely be myself around her, and we usually have a lot of fun. Yet, recently we've been fighting a lot, and I've gone through spells of wanting to end the relationship. In a few months, I'm leaving for the army, and we won't have a whole lot of contact for about 4 years. She says she is willing to stick with me, and I believe her. Yet, she fears that she loves me more than I love her, and I feel like it is true. I love her, but at the same time I'm having my doubts about the relationship. Sometimes I can't help but wonder what else is out there, or I just focus on all the fighting that has happened between us lately. We've almost broken up quite a few times, and shes so wary of that now. She is an amazing girl, and most of the time she makes me feel good, but I still have my doubts.

2007-02-28 16:09:14 · 4 answers · asked by nowayman72 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

I know this is probably something only I can truly decide, but I'd like to hear some advice and experience still. Thank you for your time and help.

2007-02-28 16:09:46 · update #1

4 answers

yea, you go off to the army and i'll stay with your girl here and make sure that she will be loyal

go figure, i mean seriously do you believe that she will stay with you and never waiver, especially since you will be gone most of the time for 4 years? honestly, do you expect her to wait? or a better question is do you feel it is fair to make her wait because of the decisions you made?

2007-02-28 16:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0 0

If you are fighting so much would you be open to trying couples counseling with her and see if this works at all? If you do not feel she is right for you and your life then break it off and move on with your life and let her go. You will be better off for it down the road. She probably does love you more then you love her at this point. I personally do not feel she is the right one for you and your life and you really need to let her go so she can move on with her life as well and both of you should keep looking and dating until you each find someone who is right for your lives. If it were me i would break it off and move on with my life if i was not sure about it. JMHO.

2007-03-01 00:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0 0

if you are still not sure about the two of you then maybe you should slow thing down or stop seeing each other all together falling in love should not be hard. but working on a relationship is hard work if you think there is more or better out there then the love is not there to work on

2007-03-01 00:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by teadropsue 3 · 0 0

if all u are doing is fighting then i would follow your heart. but yet the fear of u leaving for four years could have that effect on her. Maybe this is how she is coping with u leaving. But if u are not happy with someone and u feel that u need to vacate then do so.go with ur gut instinct that one works well...gl

2007-03-01 11:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by featherlover2002 2 · 0 0

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