I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years and during this time he's been contantly cheating on me.?

Question

I love my boyfriend with all my heart I never cheated on him or even thought about it. he's my world and I never want to be w/o him he's made three babies by three different girls with in 2 years. Please tell me what to do.

Answer 1

Get into some serious psychotherapy to determine just why you think a bastard like him is a good idea.

Answer 2

You know what you need to do honey, you just dont' want to do it. It's hard breaking off six years of your life, but at what expense? This man has cost you years of your life that you are never going to get back. The tears, the heartache, the doubts, the never being able to trust him...and then add to that, his entire paycheck is going to be going for child support. Since you are just in the boyfriend/girlfriend stage...run....don't look back. He's not a boyfriend. He doesn't care about you the way that you do him. I know it hurts to hear that, but cheating once is a mistake...those things sometimes happen...but three times? Some people are just incapable of change. And you could spend the rest of your life on yahoo answers trying to seek out help for this relationship you are hell bent on trying to make work, or you can go out and find someone who will put into the relationship as much as they take. You have no idea what it is like to be truly loved and appreciated, not to mention respected...until you've met a real man. Real men do not cheat sweetie...send this boy packing back home to mamma....he's got alot more growing up to do. Life doesn't work this way and if you continue down this road, you are just enabling him to cheat more because you keep taking him back. It's tough...but nobody said life was easy. And no, the good ones aren't always taken either, you just need to start looking on the sidewalk, not the gutter. He doesn't deserve you. Please stop giving him the satisfaction of having his cake and eating it too!

Answer 3

PLEASE< IN THE NAME OF GOD< Leave him. 6 years, and he is still cheating. One time is too many, but constantly? And to top it off he has babies by three different girls. Even if he stopped cheating on you, you still wouldn't have anything, because he would be having to pay all that money to child support. He is not worth it. And if you don't have any children by him, then you have got it even easier to leave him. And even if you do have a child by him, he will never be able to give the child what it needs, because he has all those other kids. You, and you alone are the only one who can make yourself happy, and it's NOT with him. Good luck,,, And find a good friend who can help you with this problem.

Answer 4

With all the love that you have to give it is better to give it
to someone who in return will give you some also. The
world is a pretty big place and for you to say he's your
world and he constantly cheats on you then you need to
change worlds. Respect yourself as he doesn't, and make
it to where you are happy. If you still love him then talk to
him and let him know that the cheating has to stop and he
has to be 100percent for you. Stand up and be a woman
and if he continues then do your part and look for some-
one who cares about you. You owe it to yourself and you
will find out that it's much better . So be strong and think
about yourself sometimes instead of just him. Good luck.

Answer 5

GET SOME CONFIDENCE, SELF-ESTEEM, AND START LOVING YOURSELF, AND MOVE ON! Sweetie, you don't put all your love in no man. You have to love yourself before a man can love you, and apparenly you don't love YOURSELF. Anytime a man cheats, he doesn't want what you want out of life. He had three kids on you, You should have left when the first child was conceived. You need to pray and ask God to grant you the strenth and courage to get up and move on with your life, ask God to give you the courage to get through this, and when you do get through, don't go get another man. Spend some time learning how to LOVE, AND TAKE CARE OF YOU WITHOUT A MAN, OR LITTLE BOY THAT CAN'T KEEP HIS STUFF IN HIS PANTS. You don't want to be taking care of another womans kids, especially not three different women kids. I'm sure you will want some of your own one day. If he is with you, he can't take care of the three children, because I'm sure he is trying to make you feel he is not cheating (For Now). GIRL WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE, BECAUSE IT'S BURNING. BE BLESSED!

Answer 6

Honey trust me i have been in your situation and its not a pretty picture. I so know how you feel about him and you love him very much and all but is it really worth getting hurt all the time and being treated like a piece of crap? Like you are a doormat that he can just keep whipping his feet on every time he cheats on you?!

If he has cheated on you even 1 time that is 1 time to many! No man is worth keeping if he cant love you and only you!
I know that you have been with him for 6yrs and he has 3 kids by 3 different whores!!! I'm sorry but that is what they are! If they are willing to spread them with a male whore who is in a relationship with another woman's man then they are a whore!!!

Get RID of him! Why should you settle for CRAP when YOUR PRINCE CHARMING is right around the corner!!

Honey take it from me i have been down that road and i found my prince and you will to.

Answer 7

thats obvious dump him, you really dont love urself do u? i feel sorry for you in a way 6 yrs down the drain but u know wat they say wats worse then 6 yrs down the drain 6 years and 1 day down the drain. life is short 2 short. look at it in this way if u live up 2 a hundred which u might be able 2 do then 6% of ur life had been spent cheated on by this guy who at the same time managed to knock up 3 girls in 2 years. dump him, dont talk 2 him , work exerise focuss on making urself better and get more confidence then start anew relationship.

Answer 8

Dump his sorry a/ss. If you're that amazingly loyal and you're still hanging around someone who constantly cheats on you with girls dumb enough not to use some decent form of birth control - you need to find someone else. That and the fact that he's slept with three girls (that you know about) without using a condom might sooner or later leave you with a giant case of STDs. And lets face it, the f*cker is not worth dying for.

Answer 9

hmm the way u defined ur bf shows that he's a great guy.. n it sort of feels that u additionally care lots approximately him. to avert complicating the concerns, greater useful 4get each and every thing n pass 4ward.. N it extremely is substantial in a rel that u r able 2 tell him approximately ur definitely emotions with none hesitations.. if u've consistently struggled in telling him how u experience, then its a compromise. Mayb u could concentration on removing that hesistation barrier between u 2.. all the suited :)

Answer 10

I think you already know what you should do, you are just afraid to admit it aloud!!!

You need to kick him to the curb!!!!! He will continue to cheat as long as you don't do anything about it. You are enabling him to do it because by not telling him it is a problem and forcing him to make a decision (you or the other girls) you are telling him in a round about way that it's okay for him to treat you like yesterday's garbage and walk all over you!!!!

You have to put your foot down and be strong. If it is meant to be it will.

Answer 11

If you were my daughter I'd move you out of state and away from this JACK ***! Girl come on, what kind of future do you have with this selfish jerk? Your barking up the wrong tree. You need to move on. Stop being so hard on your self there are plenty of guys out there and I know it's easier said then done but you really have to ask your self WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM! Do you hate your self that much? Learn how to better your self, get some counseling and move your self on from this awful situation. There is a whole world out there for you to see.

Much luck to you.