well, my best frend is ignorin me. she is not includin me in things she used to. but she is includin another gal who is not a problem creator but still im feelin bad. i dont really knw what im supposed to do so plz help me
2007-02-28 15:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by jus freeze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel.. But don't do it out in the open. Do it when you both have time. Privately. Tell her and she'll most likely deny it at first, but watch her and when she excluding you again, single her out, but not in a rude way. Bring her to the side and tell her as nicely as you can. Or just say, "see, this is what I mean." That way, she can't deny it! I was in that same situation.
Good Luck!
2007-02-28 15:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by anew_star@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much does this friendship mean to you? do you want to hang out with her or are you just feeling rotten because of her rejection toward you?
I would find a 'new best friend' and watch her come flying back to be your friend.
Why is it so difficult for females to have more than one friend at a time??!!! This exclusivity that females have is a drag.
Guys are like the more the merrier!
2007-02-28 15:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends. You can have more than one best friend. As time progresses you will weed out all the duds and be left with the good friends.
2007-02-28 15:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Ally♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend confronting her in a calm manner privately. You two don't want to just throw a good friendship away. Just be prepared on what she tells you, it might be something that your not aware of, and maybe its something that you two can work out.
2007-02-28 15:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by j'smom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say whatever!!!!! ignore her too, if she sees that your sad or confused or weak about it she will feel as though she has won, show her that you dont care and get on with other things that matter more. if she was a true friend she wouldnt ignore you in the first place!
good luck and you can do it!!!be strong!!
2007-02-28 15:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by SugaLova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone, maybe she is trying to politely brush you off, ever think of that? I am doing that to one of my girl friends right now and she can't get the hint.
2007-02-28 15:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her too! just go about like nothing, make new friends, and dont let her get to you. If its still bothering you, go talk to her express your feelings and see what she says.
2007-02-28 15:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by ?GlamourRock? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my best friend was ignoring me, then she isn't my best friend anymore. I would drop her like excess baggage.
2007-02-28 15:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by fishcantswim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just stop being her friend or if you like her just try and talk to her
2007-02-28 15:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by pauline i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her. If she doesn't talk back,tell her friends what wrong.If she still doesn't response,then you should dump her.
2007-02-28 15:29:44 · answer #10 · answered by justine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋