strong again and will i have a hard time getting pregnant when he comes home? the first time i got pregnant the first time we tried, but they could not find babies heartbeat, anybody delivered a healthy baby after this? i am also 35 but am physically fit if that helps.
2007-02-28 15:00:17 · 11 answers · asked by pnygrl777 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am in a similar boat as you girlfriend. I m/c on Monday and feel really down. I'm told that time heals all things and I certainly hope that is the case. In regards to getting pregnant again, my doctor told me that there is no reason I can't have more children. I'm even older than you---38. So hang in there with me.
I'm hoping your husband isn't gone long and that you can begin trying again real soon. In the meantime, is there anyway he could simply store his sperm for use while he's away? I don't know anyone who's ever tried this, but certainly other people have, right? I know you're desperate to try again (as am I).
2007-03-01 04:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Super Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if we can answer all those for you. I hope you can be strong, i know its hard. My husband leaves in about that same time too.. (he isn't by chance stationed at MCBH?). You just have to know that sometimes miscarriages are natures way of saying the child wouldn't have made it in this world.. I don't think you should have too difficult of a time getting pregnant, if you have twice already. Its just you will be more of a high risk pregnancy. Sometimes you need to slow down and lay around during the first trimester, let you and your baby relax and grow without outside strain.
I really feel for you, i have a friend who has had the same problem (her husband is gone now, he won't be back for another year). You just have to know that there will be a baby for you two soon, and when it comes it will be more of a blessing than you will know. Good luck, and i really hope everything works out for the best. Stay strong, and know that everything will be okay.
2007-02-28 23:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who was in the exact same situation as you. She miscarried at 16 weeks and delivered at 18. Just a few weeks later her husband deployed. She was 35. Last January (2006) she found out she was pregnant at 36, and now has a healthy, hefty 5 month old baby. Her husband returned from his deployment in December of 05. I can't tell you when you will feel strong again, it took her quite a while. I also can't guarantee that you will have another baby, but I do wish you the best of luck when he returns. I will say a prayer for you, for strength.
2007-02-28 23:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by candra_calhoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first pregnancy I miscarried with this pregnancy I had gotten pregnant the first time we tried. My next pregnancy I got pregnant the first time we tried and delivered a perfect healthy baby as well as the time after this. I have been pregnant 3 times and have 2 perfect children, there shouldn't be any problems getting pregnant agian and carrying to full term. miscarriage is a hard thing and it does take time to heal, give yourself the time you need, the pain will get better.
2007-02-28 23:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by Angela N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss. I have been there, and it's a really hard time. I lost twins around the same time in my pregnancy that you did. It takes time. I can't tell you that there are not days that I won't be hard. But just hold on. The doctor told me that 98% of miscarriages are due to abnormal cell growth. It was your body's way of protecting you. Sweetheart, it will get better. Take it one day at a time and lean on friends and family. That's what they are there for!!!! And please, DO NOT blame yourself. It just happens. I think that's the hardest thing to accept. As for the future pregnancies, talk to your doctor. Recent stats say that you will still have a good chance of conceiving, even after a miscarriage. Good luck!
2007-03-01 00:25:16 · answer #5 · answered by mtippett17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a miscarriage at 11 weeks didn't even know baby died at 8 weeks and didn't know until a ultra sound and their was no heart beat and i was suppose to be 11 weeks so i had to get a dnc that was in Oct. 05 and i am 35 weeks pregnant now and everything is going good even though the baby is breeched so i am sorry for your loss and i hope everything will get better.
2007-02-28 23:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by hoslnm01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have any advice, I know people that have had healthy children after miscarrying 3 times. Just wanted to say I hope everything goes alright. It sounds like your going through a rough time right now...
2007-02-28 23:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by JAH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miscarried last month (8 weeks). I still sometimes cry especially when I allow myself to think about it. We are waiting for my cycle so we can try again. I've heard that it is wasy to get PG after a MC but we aren't trying yet. I'm sorry for your loss and I wish u the best of luck getting PG again and Gos bless your husband for helping defend our country. I will keep him in my prayers.
2007-02-28 23:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I hope that you have friends or family close to you that can be a support while you are going through this tough time especially with your husband leaving. My thought and prayers are with you and i hope when he comes home you two get a beautiful baby! Good Luck!!
2007-03-01 00:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many many of us have gone thru the heartbreak of a miscarriage. I did and had two kids afterward. And there are so many women who have also had the same experiences. Relax, get well, and try again. No one knows why we have a miscarriage most of the time. But most of the time it doesnt affect you the next time around.
2007-02-28 23:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋