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2007-02-28 14:59:29 · 22 answers · asked by jalesa m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There are many families that will love your baby! Give a loving couple a chance to become parents! Putting your baby into a loving home is a good choice for you and your precious baby! The baby will grow up and find out how young you were when he or she was born and understand why you gave them up! You are far too young to take care of a little baby and need to finish school! You will be giving the gift of life to a couple who would not be able to have children otherwise. God bless you! You and your baby are in my prayers!
2007-02-28 15:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What do you say to a 14 year old child who has just found out she's pregnant and has probably already heard it all before, but has decided to take a chance. as the majority do... it so sad that there are so many teenagers not understanding what life is really about. they go through there young life only to think of themselves and not the effect of the decisions they make and how it effects others.They fail to realize no matter what there told by others who have already been there, That the decisions they make are lifelong decisions that they must be accountable for.
Well. It is what it is now.
lets face it 99% of all teenagers think for some reason when they become a teenager they are now grown.and not realizing that they are not .until a situation like this arises and they are left to face reality..
Now you will grow up as fast as you wanted too
Don't mean to sound harsh. But it is the truth. I t will not be easy
as a young teenage mother. and hopefully throughout your expereinces you now have to look forward to. you will now see.
As a young girl, young Mother you must look out for your child and now make appropriate decisions for your child.Wheather the father will stick with you are not is uncertain.But your child depends on you. You will understand when your child becomes a teenager and you are hoping and praying that they make the right choices. The question now is .what do you do that is best for your child.Because that is now your First priority.
Hopefully you have sopportive parents that will stand by your side and help you through this.if so talk to them.and do what is best for your child.
Good Luck
2007-02-28 15:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by need to know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow why are you having sex at 14?!?! Thats terrible.. but an entirely different issue. Well being that your body continues the pregnancy and doesnt miscarriage (since youre so young) you should really consider adoption. The baby deserves to grow up in a good home, and honestly at 14 I cant see that being with you (no offense). Plus you'd still get to live your life, enjoy high school, go to college, all knowing that you gave your child the best you could and hopefully learn from your mistake (not that a child ever is a mistake). Good luck with whatever you do but keep in mind that abortion is murder and there are tons of people that cant have babies that want to so if you dont want it, give it up.
2007-02-28 16:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are 14; you shouldn't be opening your legs anyways. But, it's obviously too late to change that now isn't it? All I have to say is I hope you know what you are putting yourself through and I also hope you know it will be a long hall and a struggle because you are 14 and still in school, I hope; your still a baby yourself, the man might leave and or deny the baby. You may never be able to find him again and you won't get any support from him in any way. Now, please I beg of you, even if you deside you can not care for the baby or you don't want to the baby, please do not get an abortion. How would you feel if your mom desided to abort you, how would you feel? Your killing a living child. So please whatever your choices, just don't get an abortion. Anyways, all I can say is good luck and god bless.
2007-02-28 15:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your parent's and hopefully they are understanding and will help you with the decision that you make. also I want you to know that abortion is no good, and nobody can make you do anything that you don't want too. and after this is all said and done with please becareful and get some sort of birth control. Good Luck sweetheart. I hope the best and if you do decide to keep the baby and raise he/she just remember that breastfeeding isn't embarrising it's healthier and natural and if someone doesn't like it they don't have to look. also remember that the sweet baby that you brought into this world always comes 1st no matter what and that you be the best mother that you can be and give that baby all the loving you can they grow up fast. Once again good luck.
2007-02-28 15:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by HotMilf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you havent already, you may want to talk to your parents or a trusted adult. Hopefully they'll go through your options with you and help you make a decision. Its not going to be easy, but because you're young it's a decision you will need to make ASAP. Dont be scared to talk to someone. Putting it off wont make it any easier. I was 7wks when I told my parents and I thought that was too long to say something (I was 4wks when I found out that I was pregnant). You know, Planned Parenthood is another option now that I think about it.
Good luck and I hope you make a decision that is right for you :)
2007-02-28 15:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by jmmartinez86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to find someone you trust to help you make the decision that is best for you. I know how you feel. I got pregnant at 15 and it is pretty scary. Just be sure to make a decision that you wont regret. Explore ALL of your options. I am living proof that you can be a teenage mom. My son is turning 8 next month and I wouldn't trade my time with him for anything in the world. Good Luck. :)
2007-02-28 15:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by christine e 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! By the time you're my age the kid will be out of your house. I'm going to strongly recommend that after the baby is born you start using birth control. You know, like aspirine. If a crying baby with a loaded diaper doesn't kill the mood you'd be amazed at how well a single Bayer aspirine tablet held firmly between your knees will prevent an unplanned pregnency.
2007-02-28 15:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What would you like to do? For sure tell your parents or grandparents. Whoever you live with. Remember this is not the end of the world. :) I'd say give the baby up for adoption, but it is your choice. I hope someone will help you and take good care of you. This is hard to go through. Good luck!
2007-02-28 15:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by MommyMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow...i am sorry...
such a trying period for you...you will have a hard time trying to have you high school fun and take care of a youngun at the same time...
you are going to need the assistance of others in this case...have the case manager of the hospital where you are going to be delivering to set you up with the prenatal classes, WIC, medicaid, parenting classes and talk with your school counselor about bringing baby to school (unless you may have a caretaker to help you) and here is the hard part...budgeting your time between school, friends, baby and others...baby first, school sencond, friends third and others last...you need to sit down and plan your days a week in advance...
4am get up and feed the baby
5 am get ready for school
6am leave for school
8am feed baby
noon feed baby
4pm leave school and feed baby
5pm home to eat
6pm homework
8pm feed baby
9pm go to bed
midnight feed bay and go back to sleep
good luck!
2007-02-28 15:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋