My friend brooke just started going out with this guy for 2 months now. I've been her friend for 14 years and shes only known him for 3 months. I asked her if she had to choose would she pick me or him and she said "I dont know you guys are equal". She's only 15 and She's made out with him without a bra and shirt on. Im like seriously your only 15 your way to young to be doing this. She hangs out with him 24/7. and there already talking about marriage.
She is so wiped. Everytime i tell her she's being to serious she yells at me and gets mad. I dont know what to do. I wish they would just break up.
2007-02-28 14:42:03 · 9 answers · asked by Rach12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People grow up and move on...You shouldn't make her choose between you and her boyfriend...If you want to remain friends, back off a little...
2007-02-28 15:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The quickest way to loose a friend is to get in their way when they're sooooo into a guy. Instead of alienating her by telling her you wish she and her new boyfriend will break up, be a friend and listen to her when she talks about him. Be her sounding board. Sometimes she doesn't know that she is already going too far with this guy for someone who is only 15 yrs old. But maybe while she tells you what they have been doing, it will give her a chance to re-think about it and realize that she is rushing into this thing.
My girlfriends and I have a saying... 'happiness first before friendship' meaning we wish for our friend's happiness and be supportive of it but will be there if it doesn't work out. Are you against her relationship because you genuinely don't like this guy and you think her is not good for her or because it cuts into your time with her? I say, try to be a friend by being there for her when she needs you instead of feeling sorry for yourself coz she doesn't have time for you anymore.
2007-02-28 15:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Sami Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u did wrong for making her choose. Being in love is the sweetest time and u trying to make her unhappy. As a pal, you already give her your best advice. It's up to her to wake up from her dream. Dun waste your time advice on her anymore. Spend your precious time with other frens that appreciate your advice & attention. Your fren will need time to get over the romance fever.
2007-02-28 18:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how u feel. but there is nothing u can say or do to stop her. when u in love with someone u will understand too.
but as what u said she is talking about marriage at such a young age is not a good idea. mayb u can talk to her parent & let them know what she doing now. u cant stop them but her parent mayb can.
2007-03-01 19:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by kiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best thing you can do for your best friend and for yourself is to join a Christian Youth Group ...call around...you'll have many guy/girl friends to talk to, to go places with, and to pray with. Everyone needs prayer and if you really are her best friend you'll do this for her.
ASAP
Sista C
2007-02-28 15:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by sista c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally know how you feel i am going through the exact same thing and it is horrible... you just have to let her make her own mistakes and be there when she falls and maybe she will realize how good of a friend you are
2007-02-28 14:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jazillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you are going thru exact same thing but let them brake up later on shes gonna run back to you when they brake up seriously shes a jerk
2007-02-28 15:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by karen t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably when you have a boyfriend yourself, you will understand why your best friend is behaing this way.
2007-02-28 15:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just doesn't want to lose him. You should really tell her that you're worried for her. You should tell her you don't want her pregnant.
2007-02-28 14:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Maddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋