Ok.. so there's this guy named matthew and i think i like him! I didn't know him in the begining in school and he asked me out on a date to the "beging of the year dance" and i said yes. The only problem now is that we agreed to be "friends"!!! He likes this other girl and she so much prettier and better then me..... What can i do to make him like me more??? And how do i know if he does?
2007-02-28 14:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There must have been a reason why you agreed to be "friends". If he likes someone else right now i would just wait and see what happens, but if you cant just tell him that you think you like him a little more than "friends" and see what he says, but dont get all upset if he doesnt feel the same way because in the beginning you both agreed on just being friends, And dont say shes prettier and better than you because a guy loves a confident woman/girl. your as good and as pretty as YOU believe you are.
2007-02-28 14:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell yourself that she's prettier or better than you, that will only bring you down. If anything you should tell yourself, "I'm just as pretty and just as good as her, so why does he like her?" It could be her personality. Don't try and change yourself for him, that's just flat out pathetic, all you can do really is to charm him and try an push your "friendship" alittle further.
2007-02-28 22:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by anew_star@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont every think anyone is prettier than you because guys she girls way different than girls do ya know? like girls can think a girl is ugly and guys can think shes super hott! they are just strange like that haha. but maybe he likes you and hes just to shy to tell you. Dont try to make him like you more because you might scare him away. If he likes you he will tell you just be patient.
i hope i helped =]
2007-02-28 22:44:44 · answer #3 · answered by Britt <3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duuuuuuuuh! You said he likes another girl and you agreed to be friends. Wait until he gets tired of her and make sure you are having too much fun to notice, maybe he will come back, maybe not, but who cares you will be having too much fun to notice.
2007-02-28 22:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you he will definitely let you know. And if he doesn't like you then you shouldn't do anything to make him like you more...NEVER change YOU for a guy!!!! If they don't like you for you, then they aren't worth being with in the first place. Good Luck to you!
2007-02-28 23:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously is interested in you, just be yourself. If this girl is prettier than it could just be his eye she is catching but if you are as interesting as he may think you are...you will catch his heart..good luck.
2007-02-28 22:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be nice to him. You cant MAKE him like you more but if the other gal turns out to be a b****, that will make her turn ugly in his eyes real fast.
2007-02-28 22:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't simply 'make' someone like you. For many guys, we unfortunately hide our feelings within.
Open up to him: tell him how you feel. He might think you're more beautiful than you know. :)
Good luck!
2007-02-28 22:48:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi,
why worry about him. you went out once with him and had fun. he chose someone else, so what his loss. you are still a young girl find a boy who is going to want to be with you and not someone else,
2007-02-28 22:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard 2 say. u need more self esteem.
2007-02-28 22:52:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋