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Hey. I need some advice. I don't know if i should tell my parents about it, i want to become a pole dancer, i thik it would be a good job. My parents are very strict and if i tell them they might not talk to me anymore. I'm 18 and i want them to realise that i'm not a little girl anymore, i'm not sure how to talk to them about it. Please help

Answer 1

if they consider you more important than any beliefs they have they will keep talking to you --- there is nothing more you can do than be honest and be yourself --- best wishes

Answer 2

hi.
don't you think that telling them may come as a shock to them. yes you are 18 but you are still there little girl and they want the best for you and in there eyes becoming a pole dancer is just not it. think about what you are choosing as a life career old men watching you dance for money them wanting to touch all over you, are you sure that you want to go to sleep at night with the idea of going back to the night club just to do it all over again,

Answer 3

Your first foremost thing you should do is education.I lived with a lot of topless dancers and you will become a shallow person without the fact that in the long run you can be better than that. Always have education in your first thoughts because it is most important.You must have been in a hurry with your details because you need to check your spelling.So some reading and writing would be best.

Answer 4

i hear that the pay is good but only for a short time after a couple of weeks the people get tired of you and they want to see a fresh face. this will not show your parents that your not a little girl any more. if any thing it will show them that you have no morals and poor judgement. also do you know what kind of men are in those clubs dirty nasty drunk old men who are most likely old enough to be your grandfather do you want these kind of men grabing at you all the time. you really need to think about this

Answer 5

well if its your first real job i suggest you do not become a pole dancer
if you really want to just tell them and have an escape plan

mmmm if it helps i lifeguard and i get really tan and the pay is very good

if you are 18 you can do anything in the world and theres no real reason to become a poledancer,,, you'll get mixed up with the wrong people

become a belly dancerr

Answer 6

I don't think that is very good to explain to your parents, especially your dad! A father's girls are always his little angels, but if you really want to, then I think you should come up with a strong reason and go from there. Parents are there to support their children, so if your parents approve, then make sure you thank them 9186234089576345 many times! Good luck!

Answer 7

Buy a pole, set it up in the living room some night. Just wear tights so as not to totally shock them. Put on a show and get their reaction.

Answer 8

Well, tell ur parents, cause either way they're going to find out, if u don't its just gonna make them lose respect for u, and ur job.


U should not lose respect for urself in that job....if u r gorgeous as u say u r, than there is no need for u too hear it from sum horny bums.

"Nobody Respects a gurl that undresses for anyone and everyone!"

Answer 9

you should tell them why you want to be a pole dancer and figure out ways you could make a living off of this

Answer 10

well you,ll always be ya daddys little girl and becoming a pole dancer isnt going to make you anymore mature in thier eyes it will make you look more childish that away...but good luck either way

Answer 11

Well if you have never done this I think you should go give it a whirl once and see if its your cup of tea its not for everyone, If you like it and still fear your parents save up and move out show them you can do it and not go to the bad side of the stage, It is not all glamor and gleam