dont send me messages saying im "too young" or "dont ask these type of questions" its just a simple question and i want an answer. =]
2007-02-28 14:34:23 · 24 answers · asked by clementine 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, it might even hurt a few times after the first time. And you might break the wall called hymen and bleed a bit. (commonly referred to as popping the cherry). Some girls do not bleed because their hymen have already been broken due to sports that are very physical.
2007-02-28 14:39:19 · answer #1 · answered by falala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Definitely use K-Y or something, not Vaseline though, to help make it a bit gentler on you. Hopefully he will be sensitive to you and not try to rush you. The more nervous you are the worse it will be, so please be sure this is the one for you. Why would anyone want to go through this if he isn't truly your guy. Okay...off the soapbox now. As with most things, the more often you do it , the easier and more enjoyable it will be!
Make sure you have a pad for afterwards just in case.
You didn't ask but nobody told me till I was having a lot of problems, condoms with a spermicide may be cause pain and irritation. Same with textured ones. You might want to try out different kinds after you get used to sex.
2007-02-28 22:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by mamma-mia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most often yes but if it hurt that bad we wouldn't do it. Make sure you are very relaxed use lots of lubrication, lots and have the guy masturbate you first until you are naturally wet and then you will be more relaxed. If this sounds ooooh to you, you may want to wait a while and do more research about what exactly happens when that big thing enters for the first time and evenm sometimes a few times after that. Its worth it if you are ready.
2007-02-28 22:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually it does. Not too bad to not want to do it again....LOL... If you have been active in sports or used tampons before it might not hurt at all. What hurts is the skin that most girls are born with that can partially cover the opening up of the vagina. This is whats called the "Cherry" and when it is ripped it sometimes hurts and bleeds...
2007-02-28 22:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by cathy s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For most women, yes, it does. However, everyone's body is different and for some girls it hurts more than others. About 40% of women have some bleeding the first time. You ay also be sore for a few days after.
2007-02-28 22:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just lost my virginity last week and it hurt pretty bad. He could barely even get it in. We just had sex again on Tuesday night and he got it in all the way and it hurt really bad until I remembered to relax. I asked a question on here about it a few days ago and everyone just told me to relax, but I didn't really take that as good advice. TRUST ME, it's the best advice. When it starts to hurt, just close your eyes and remember to relax, it's hard, but it helps so much!!
2007-02-28 22:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oftentimes, yes, but it's usually not anything intense, and it hurts less if you are relaxed and comfortable. Make sure you are protected and trust the person you are with. That will make it easier to relax. It gets better with time.
2007-02-28 22:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does. For the first couple of times.
2007-02-28 22:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does it hurt like hell I though that my boy friend was trying to kill me. And for the longest I would never have intercourse with him.Because it hurt to bad and I was scared also.
2007-02-28 22:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if the male has very much girth (size) to his penis...but generally there is some discomfort the first time.
2007-02-28 22:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋