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Everyone's telling me that I'm not going to be up to it.

2007-02-28 14:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by DEAN 1 in Education & Reference Higher Education (University +)

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A lot don't return, some do. I took a year off and couldn't wait to get back! It was great to have a break and give myself a chance to do something else. But, I discovered that working a 9-5 wasn't all that interesting at that point, and was happy to go back.

I think if you're feeling burned out, but love school, take some time off. If you just aren't feeling committed, taking time off probably won't increase your commitment. But then again, maybe it's okay--maybe there's something else out there for you.

In the end, you'll go back if you want to--really want to.

2007-02-28 17:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by emmesokol57 3 · 0 0

As the other posters have suggested, quite a few people are in your situation.

My advice would be to take a year off if you're not sure. There is some rationale for taking this position. If you were to ask a majority of the college freshman that struggled during their first year, "Why?," they would probably tell you that they weren't serious about school, were burned out, etc. I got kicked out of school after 3 semesters because I was partying my butt off. However, this was probably the best thing that could have happened to me. I "woke up" and decided that school was really important to me. I got back into school, graduated, and currently attend one of the top law schools in the country.

Also, one other point. The high school directly to college culture is primarily a U.S. thing. A good majority of European and Australian students actually take a year off to travel between high school and university. I love this idea (if you can afford it). Not only does it give you some time to mature, it gives you some time to recharge your batteries so that if you do decide that you want to go back to school, you will be dedicated to it and do well from the get go (and not waste three semesters of tuition like I did). Even if you decide not to go back to school, there are many different routes that you can take. Good luck.

2007-03-01 11:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by dlewisdm 3 · 0 0

i'm going to answer this questions assuming you mean a year off after high school but before college...whether you will go back to school or not is up to you. but before you make a decision you should ask yourself why you are taking time off of school in the first place... is it becuase you dont know waht you want to do with your life? that's totally normal. people change their majors so many times before they graduate and that shouldn't stop you from getting started and experimenting a little. taking classes is actually a great way to rule out what you definitely dont want to do. plus, no matter where you go really, you are going to spend the first two years taking general ed classes anyway. you dont have to be declared. if you have better plans like traveling then i'm jealous. however, you dont want to blow all your money traveling and then come back and really not have any money to go back to school with. those are the only two reasons i can think of other than work that you would want to take a year off for. if you are taking a year off for work, then theres a chance you might not go back. working makes you feel like you dont need the education to make money. and while that might work now, it wont in the long run.

however, if you've already started college and are taking a year off, i would strongly urge you to reconsider. if you are already in the rhythm of school, just stick it out. honestly, you might start making excuses to not go back and you will feel so much more accomplished when you finish! i know its hard. i'm in my junior year right now and it seems like its never going to end. next spring feels really far away but you can make it. good luck and hang in there.

2007-02-28 22:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by lalie 3 · 0 0

If you can avoid it, don't take the break...I speak from experience, both my wife and I took breaks, it took her almost 10 years to go back and finish and I just going back now...better not to stop, get your degree, and start making some real money :)

2007-02-28 22:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you really are devoted to it, then yes. A buddy of mine took a year off this year to do volunteer work, but strangely, he told me he wants to do it for another year... I advised him against it because he'd be graduating two years after all his friends, but at least he can buy beer earlier than most ppl :)

2007-02-28 22:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by F1reflyfan 4 · 0 0

i say if you were really that interested in college, you should start up right after you graduate. it is a lot better than taking a break becuz then u will lose all of your study and work habbits.

good luck!

2007-02-28 22:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by ☮☆☮☆☮☆☮ 3 · 0 0

If you want a good job you will.

Some people need a break so they can will become committed. Its easy to get stressed and slack off. Maybe a break will be good.

2007-03-01 00:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by glamourlicious07 2 · 0 0

You really want to know?....


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmfnRb0RWe.Pa_FDw7WClSrHxQt.?qid=20070228192914AAdjvRo



That happens to ALOT of people...A-LOT. If you're unsure if you want to go at all, don't waste your time and money. If you say that you "plan to go to college" in the future, go now.

2007-02-28 22:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by J1 4 · 0 0

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