or how do i know if he is looking for someoe else
2007-02-28 14:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kiss 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him.
2007-02-28 14:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by TRAVERS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, instead of asking us, you need to be asking him this. something tells me that what you are feeling is the "honey moon is over" phase. When all the thrills and the laughter have died down and the two of you start to drift apart. It's good that you are noticing, because this is also the time when you need to put a little extra effort into keeping that spark...the magic...bring the honeymoon back. Start up a date night, take up some of his interests...give him a reason to want to be looking at you. I'm not saying you've done anything wrong, I'm just saying that sometimes couples fall into this funk where their spouses just don't seem to do it for them anymore. There's also another thing. Your question raises some red flags about your own insecurities. When someone loves you, you know it, you feel it and you DON'T question it. If you don't feel that love...then you have to look within yourself to find out why? Why does this question come to mind? Why are you feeling this way? What's changed in your life that has led you to question his loyalty to you?
The best advice I could give would be to pull him aside and have a heart to heart. Tell him how you are feeling. He's your partner for life, the one you should turn to when things aren't going right....now is one of those times.
I wish you well honey, God Bless.
2007-02-28 14:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How attentive to you is he? how much sex does he want from you? Is he comfortable being intimate and looking directly into your eyes. Does he love doing stuff only with you. If these behaviors are present he loves you........If he is distant, very little eye contact, not available emotionally or physically. works late, out with the guys, etc.........those are not good signs. Gently confront him and be accepting of his truth. If you still think he's lying, get a detective to find out for you.
2007-02-28 14:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by sashali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on your relationship if he is looking for someone else he may seem aloof ,not wanting to be around you ,making excuses to go out taking better care of himself before he goes out such as dressing better etc..making private calls and so on i would take the time and talk to him good luck
2007-02-28 14:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by jalyn710@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u now by him coming home late with a present.
2007-02-28 14:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by katrina c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does the same things he do to you when you first met him and aint treating you like a nother gurl in his crew.wich mean cheatin
2007-02-28 14:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by karina j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't feel a connection with him...i mean if you noticed a difference on how he treats you.. does he kiss you... does he say "I LOVE YOU"? does he treat you good?
why don't you ask him? its better to ask and talk about it rather than having all these questions in your mind...it'll drive you nuts!
Good luck
2007-02-28 14:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by rache0116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're wondering, he may not.
2007-02-28 14:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't matter if he were!!!!!!!!
2007-02-28 14:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋