Last week on a Friday, I was asked by one of my friends if I would like to go to a bachelorette party. In response I said yes. The problem is my friend and girls have planned this event several months back. And I don’t have any money saved up. Plus the only money I can put down is about 200 dollars for now.
It’s a packet of 400 dollars which includes: Hotel, Transportation, V.I.P services/entrances at all clubs, bottle service for at least one night and much more. The flight is separated from the packet and I will still need extra money to spend for food and other things. And the total amount rounds up to 700 hundred dollars for 3 nights. That’s a lot of money. Not only that, but I guess my boyfriend is going to the bachelors party in Las Vegas too. And my boyfriend is only paying less than 400 hundred dollars because they are not going all out.
The problem happened when I mention to my boyfriend the amount of my whole trip to Las Vegas. He simply said, “You don’t have that kind of money and I am not going to help pay either” I quickly responded by saying, “then it would not be fare for you to go if I can’t go.” He said, “I am still going and you are not going to ruin my fun.
I am pretty sure he will go, but I am not sure if I should go. I mean I can get the money and still go. But I will be very low on cash for a couple of months after that. And I am not sure if I want to be in those circumstances. I know my boyfriend is being realistic. But if he wants to be a jerk then I will have to go. But I am not sure if that choice will make me feel any better. I mean I never been to Las Vegas and my chance of going is now. What should I do? Should I go or stay and let my “boyfriend” still go if I stay? What do you think?
2007-02-28 14:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by saraisprz@sbcglobal.net 1 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Las Vegas
Wow. Sounds like you have lots to think about.
Vegas will always be here and you can constantly find deals on a trip. If you think going on a vacation (in general) is worth being short for a little while later then I say GO for it! Maybe your boyfriend could even chip in a little?
He should go regardless but he sounds like he is being a jerk in the way he is wording things.
2007-03-01 14:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about making memories for yourself. when you are old you are going to want to look back on all the fun things you've done and the places you've seen. i think you should go. I've been to Vegas many times and its a blast especially with friends. your boyfriend is going to go no matter if you like it or not, which i think he should. live life in the present and see where it takes you. if this becomes a major issue down the line that's because you want it to be an issue. he has to live his life too. if its meant to be then it will be and if it doesn't work out then it wasn't meant to be. believe me you are going to be one unhappy girl sitting at home wondering what your boyfriends doing in Vegas. go to Vegas let loose and be happy. who knows when you are going to have another opportunity like this again.
2007-02-28 14:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take this one to the relationship page honey!!
Sounds like a couple of children who cant really communicate.
but for $00 WITH bottle service at the clubs?? Hmm.... I would need to see the deal. Come and have fun with or without the girls. Have fun with the BF ...
2007-03-02 10:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by The Vegas Tourist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...your bf is a real catch. Anyhow, maybe you can charge it on a credit card. Or get a loan for a $1000.00 for the trip. Or ask someone close to you for the loan, sign something saying you will pay it back over time.
Good Luck.
2007-02-28 14:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋