Okay. So I found out that my Godmother's cheating on my Godfather. Should I say anything, or should I let him figure it out on his own? Should I like drop hints or what? She is so wrong. The guy she's cheating on him with is their son's godfather. and he's married and has kids too. she is such a *****. how could she like do that to him? Carma's a ***** and I hope she gets hers.
2007-02-28 13:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was in the same boat babe. My god mother is the same age as me (got baptised last year) and she is cheating on her hubby. She is bi-polar and weekly visits her psychiatrist so she blames the cheating on this condition. Because I loved both my god parents I wanted her to either leave her hubby or work out the problem (I can't stand seeing my god father being cheated on). All I got from her was abuse and she kept telling me I was still a kid (I'm 27). What's really f%#ked is that she invites her lover to their home whilst her hubby is there; hoping that her hubby and lover will get along. I hate her for doing this and how many times I just wanted to tell my godfather that his wife's sleeping with this guy sitting right in front of him!
All I wanted was for her to be mature about the situation and in the end all I got was heaps of verbal and emotional abuse. And of course now I'm not in contact with her anymore.
Through this experience, I realised that it is not worth the trouble worrying over because karma will eventually catch up to em.
2007-02-28 14:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by mima... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to have proof something other than ur word i know it sounds bad but trust me u need pictures at least to show ur godfather the truth if u only tell him and she can denie it follow her gets some pics and i would recommend sending them to him so u don't get caught in the middle and she cant denie it
2007-02-28 22:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him! Do not get in the middle of a marriage. It's their problem, and they will have to deal with it. If you want to talk to her about it, go ahead, but stay out of it otherwise. Some people cheat... it's just a fact. If you want to keep your relationship with these people, keep your mouth shut.
2007-02-28 21:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her! Tell her that YOU know and that if YOU know then others know too and that's only a matter of time before her husband finds out! And that when he does, not to blame you! It will at least get her thinking, while keeping you out of her cross hairs when the shyt hits the fan!
2007-02-28 21:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only say something if you feel the need to or talk to your God mother and ask her to please tell him and to be honest with him. I think if it were me that if she did not tell him that i would. But first i would give her the chance to do so. Dropping hints might be a good idea. It is up to you how you want to handle this one bud.
2007-02-28 21:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as far as to were to tell him or not i agree he should know but way to many times when u do tell someone it ends up very bad and could hurt ur relationship with them and remember what goes around usually comes around. if u just think u have to tell him u might want to send him a letter not signed and let him start looking for his self
2007-02-28 21:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough. Is He doing something to put her here? OR..Is she doing it to him?
CARMA...WOW! I'm getting mine!!!!
And I know I deserve everything I get and more.
In the end, I know what I've done, and welcome it.
I did it. RIGHT?
If she get's away with it, BE ASSURED!!!!
Her pain starts now. I did it. 15 years later..I know in the back if my mind....I'll forever sleep alone.
That is the least of hell...
Yep..I 'm hurtin now.
I got mine.
And still gettin it.
SHE will GET hers.
I got a pitchfork that sez I do.
2007-02-28 23:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by welder guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST THING YOU SHOULDN'T JUDGE HER SHE MAY HAVE HER REASONS.OR MAYBE SHE IS JUST A _____ EITHER WAY IF YOU SAY ANYTHING YOUR GOING TO BE THE DOG TRUST AN OLD FOOL BEEN THERE DONE THAT . IF REALY THAT BAD SHE'LL GET CAUGHT AND YOUR NAME WILL NOT BE IN IT GOOD LUCK BUT ITS STILL YOUR CALL BUT IF YOU DO DECIDE TO SAY ANYTHING MAKE SURE YOU KNOW THE FACTS
2007-02-28 21:50:11 · answer #8 · answered by wayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how old you r if your under 21. Then i say stay out of grown peoples bizz.But if your grown then it all depends on who your loyalties lie with
2007-02-28 21:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll find out sooner or later...let it run its course. That totally sucks though.
2007-02-28 21:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by trillian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋