i was best friends with julia, then carissa came and everything was ok. then i became really mean to them. i don;t know why, though. anyway, we got in a fight and that was their excuse for not being my friend. they're all happy without me. i've cried so much these past months. they hate me now. and it hurts me. julia and i were so close. and carissa and i were becoming great friends.
then this happened. it hurts me so much bcuz julia and i were did everything together. we shared secrets. i feel like she's telling everybody. i wish they knew how i felt. i want to be their friends again, but they talk about me and avoid me. i feel hopeless. i'm alone. and they have each other. i need someone like them in my life again. i need someone to make me smile again. but who? i have no one. it's hard to make new friends. it's almost like i can't. i feel like just isolating myself from everone. then i won't feel all the hurt i feel now. it's hard, though. they need to see the new me. b4 it 2 late
2007-02-28 13:38:02 · 11 answers · asked by t-dog 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are serious, you need to sit down with these girls and talk about what they mean to you and treat them with respect.
You say that was "their" excuse to not be your friend, but you have to look at your own actions. You need to apologize for your actions and let them know that you don't know why you were like that, but you will try and never let that happen again.
2007-02-28 13:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by edie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Hun what I can make of this whole thing is that you felt when this new girl came along you friend would like her more and that's why you got upset and had the fight. So what you need to do is wright her a letter and tell her how you feel and why you did what you did and ask her to forgive you! Then wright the other girl a letter and tell her how you feel and what you felt when she came into your friends group. And see what happens and go from there, and if that does not work just start talking to other people and make new friends, it may seem hard to make new friends at 1st but you will be able to do it.
2007-02-28 13:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if these girls were your true freinds they would not let a little fight get between your friendship. Atleast you tried talking to them and you know that you gave it your all. If they still insist on not talking to you then that o.k. because this world is filled with many more friends and true friends. You should never feel alone. Try dateing for a while to help get your mind of those girls. Then maybe you and him could double date and you could meet new girls. Just this time be careful on who you choose as your friends. Keep your head up and dont let them get you down.
2007-02-28 13:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were really your friend they would make up with already thats how u find out who your real friends are and if they talk about u just look and smile or laugh cause it kills them inside that u are not sad or mad and u would be suprised to see how fast they come running bacc but wen day do find new friends if this doesn't work u can tell me im wrong but try it im tellin u wait and it will work. do it everytime u see them lookin and talkin or laughin at u
2007-02-28 13:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u first off because it depends on ur age and theirs. I have personal experience with this sometimes u just have to let go and go with the flow of life.
P.S. If it gets really bad talk to someone u can trust u probably hear that all the and think its a load of crap but it's not because thats what gets me through life
2007-02-28 13:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie1328 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww its okay Some girls dont know how to forgive and forget so move on with your life dont let them see you down try 2 make new friends but, i think you should talk 2 julia when she by herself and tell her how you feel cuz if she was your real friend she will come around.
2007-02-28 13:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by `Beautiful inside and out~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that all this is happing to you . I say that you need to talk to your parents or somebody cause this isnt heathly and i wouldnt want you to hurt yourself. and if i was you i wouldnt worry so much about them girls , Just remember that you are great and theres noone else like you . I hoped i help. and good luck with everything.
2007-02-28 13:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow, you dont need friends that will stab you in the back.
Just be nice to them even if they are mean to you, go sit with them at lunch, all 3 of u can be friends.
Just think nice thoughts instead of neg. ones.
they may sense your anger, so dont go there.
read the bible will help and it will rid u of evil , negative thoughts.
So, what u waitin on ...call em up and make ammends.
Life is too short to be crying, smile, its not the end of the world yet.
2007-02-28 13:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mothers and dads. tell the college. tell the police. In maximum states, if not all, an unborn fetus is seen as a individual. So, as an occasion, in the event that they have been to kill you, they may well be charged for 2 counts of homicide, as against a million. So, you may desire to speak on your mothers and dads appropriate to the guidelines. confer with the police and school, because of the fact it fairly is harassment the two way. as quickly as the police are in touch, they wont have the nerve to return close to you. not in the event that they are clever. in the event that they are not, and harm you and the child, then they are out of success.
2016-10-16 23:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by schwalm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I (would, hypothetically) kick them in the stomach, and then, when they're down, take their purses.
Seriously, you're better off without them, trust me!
2007-02-28 13:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋