Why does everyone hate me?

Question

For those who answerd my previous questions thank you and heres one for those who didnt
Do you see anything wrong with me , i have braces, glasses, a plain hairstyle, and i dont wear any makeup , i'm only in jr high and no one likes me i do great in class i am very smart i'm not a nerd.... i play 7 instruments including the eletric guitar and drums , i am very smart with computers i have my own web site,my computer teacher says that i'm realy smart to figure these things out that only a senor in highschool would know, I'm creative , i act , i'm great at drawing . But everyone hates me . I was sent a get out of our school mesage from a kid and people are framing me by putting stuff on the bathrom walls and signing it with my name. People swear at me just to get me away from the m . I don't swear and i'm not a perv. but everyone is. I cant stand it .I cant find any people to be partners with in class and people are saying bad things about me behind my back.. I'm a missfit. please help.

And i'm not fat i'm 90 pounds.... I have A.D.H.D. and i love sports. I do pull ups on my way out the door. So whats wrong with me?

Also i have a nother questoin its called Why am i such a missfit. if you want to answer on there too its like this one but not exact

Answer 1

First of all,White Fang, welcome to Y/A. I don't know why ppl feel
so negative towards you. How's your personality? When I was in school I was a loner, my grades were horrible. And the other kids for the most part didn't want much to do with me,which was ok with me. One day I wrote out a little code of conduct for myself which included not ever saying anything bad about anybody. After that I noticed the other kids were somewhat friendly to me.
I'm impressed with your talents and your moral standards. And having a plain hair style? Back then you'd have been my kind of gal. There were, however, some kids that I avoided; Kids that were always complaining,and those who were always down on certain others. I'm not saying that's you....I don't know you.
But you're just in jr high You've got still some growing to do.
And, White Fang, with all your talents, stop that nonsense of self pity, like 'Why does everybody hate me" ect. For people to like you,you must first like yourself. Best wishes and again...Welcome!

Answer 2

From this context, I can tell you are very gifted and intelligent.

The other kids are probably incredibly jealous over the fact that you can do a million things they can't.

Don't let them bother you but if they do, talk to a counselor about this. Framing someone else for something is severe and needs to be dealt with by faculty members, family, or friends.

Also, if you let it show that you are upset at what they say, they will keep at it.

Don't worry. Junior High School (I'm in 8th grade now) is only a tiny fragment of your life. Someday, when you're successful (unlike the people that are in your grade right now that try so hard to humiliate you that they neglect their studies), you'll look back and see how dumb this really is. Soon you're going to graduate Jr. High and just think about getting out of school by going to college someday.

Remember, it's good to talk to someone!

Answer 3

Those are the good parts of yourself. What about the bad parts? Do you stutter in conversation, are you too blunt, have you been in fights, do you make yourself an easy target? Are you inward looking or friendly when someone starts talking to you? Are you from a rich background and are they from poor backgrounds?

When people are taking the micky out of you it's because of their own insecurities, probably because they are jealous or that you're easy to make fun out of. Don't ignore it, just smile nod and laugh, you're creative so find a creative solution. Bathroom graffiti? Put some of your own their that says I don't care. School f**king sucks, hold onto your IQ and you'll get far

edit: I guarantee you'll find friends eventually, school might be a little lonely at first but you'll find theres other lessons to be learned than just what's on the blackboard

Answer 4

Jr high is the worst thing ever invented. It really blows monkey chunks.

By the time you hit high school none of it matter at all. And better still, by the time you hit college, none of high school will matter...

It just takes time. And unfortunately, that never seems to pass quickly enough.

On the other hand, the best way to be cool is to be laid back and easy going.... not the easiest thing to accomplish with ADHD. Picture the little dog and the big dog in the older cartoons the little dog yapping around the big dog running circles around him... and the big dog is just laid back and cool. ya know?

--Lee Ann

Answer 5

You could be the next Bill Gates. That will show everyone how awesome you are. Love yourself first and don't worry about the losers who don't matter.

Answer 6

hai this is Evan (sunny from toon town) I actuly thing all those things are cool! u play alot of instruments ur like they girl from naked brothers band XD. Ur really cool!

Answer 7

be very proud of yourself, people can be very jealous .just think your not the stupid one,they are so why be bothered what they say, just think your gonna be someone when you are finished school because you worked hard for it, they will end up no where.

Answer 8

maybe you should try reaching out to others. don't wait on them to come to you! also, if people think you're high on yourself, they'll mock and avoid you. but you sound cool to me :)