If you have a good husband and he's a good provider a good father, he respects you he doesn't beat you.Then why when you try to be with him he pushes you away and when he does have sex with you he doesn't even bother to touch you and he expects you to feel good.So my question is where is the magic potion to a happy marriage?
2007-02-28 13:33:29 · 7 answers · asked by seialie (pronounced sally) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sit down and talk with your husband about this and see why he is pushing you away and is not interested in you this way. Is he stressed or something or maybe he has a disorder? See if he is open to visiting a doctor with you or a sex therapist for help in this matter. I hate to say it but he may be cheating on you or even gay for that matter. I dont mean to scare you but this could be some of the reasons why. There is really no magic potion to marriage. Marriage is what you make of it and it takes two and it also takes work at times and sometimes even marriage counseling which the two of you may very well need in this case.
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2007-02-28 13:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no magic potion honey. Too many people get married and then the masks fall off and you're legally stuck together. Thats why I'm big on living together first.
2007-02-28 21:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loss of intimacy in a relaitonship spells disaster, talk to your husband about how you are made to feel by his actions, try and discover is there a problem he needs to share, if that doesnt work, well good luck, my own husband and i experienced similiar problems, eventually leading to no sex or physical contact or affection of any sort that lasted for 7 years before finally we separated, he was a 'good' husband too but i decided i deserved more out of life than that, by the way we still good friends, there just isnt any love
2007-02-28 21:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry all out of stock in magic potions for a perfect wedding, you must teach him yourself
2007-02-28 21:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is one...but I guess maybe a marriage counselor is a good place to start.
2007-02-28 21:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by trillian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the job .outside the house where working women are.
2007-02-28 21:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by salem l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be telling him and not asking me.
2007-02-28 21:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋