all she did was kiss a guy though....but i really love her
2007-02-28 13:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by LaLa 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
sorry about posting it in fashion, as many of you have commented. i thought i clicked singles and datingm, guess not. thanks for the advice, everyone. idk what to do. i always thought it would work
2007-02-28 13:48:17 · update #1
Dump her. Long distance relationships...what's the point?
2007-02-28 13:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by Guncrazy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lived through a similar situation but it was much worse than what you're experiencing now. I lived in Hawaii and had a long distance relationship for 3 years with a girl in Providence, RI. We visited each other frequently (about every 2 months for 1 month at a time), but I had my doubts about her fidelity. Eventually, she convinced me to move to Rhode Island (in the winter no less!). Shortly after moving there, I found out that she had been having sexual and emotional relationships with other guys the whole time we had been dating. I was devastated and moved away shortly thereafter. It was a good learning experience, but not one I would recommend you experience yourself. Take my word for it-- if she cheated on you once, she'll cheat on you again...and the next time probably won't be just a kiss. Good luck, and find yourself a nice local girl!
2007-02-28 21:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by decrepit0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well once a cheater always a cheater ,dont matter what gender, you may have to have a long talk with her about your relationship ,and really discuss if its really worth all the distance and lonely nights , its really hard when you or her have needs and they cant reach out and touch someone so i would suggest you give this some serious thought and both of you come to a decision about where to go from here ,good luck
2007-02-28 21:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by william n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but i wouldn't try to work it out. if she is secretly kissing guys and maybe this is the first time you've found out from hearing the guy in the background when she thought she was being secretive or whatever, drop her. find a girlfriend who you can be with most of the time and can actually hang out with in person. also, if you are having issues about letting her go, think of it this way- she could probably taking the mystery guy on dates and kissing him all the time, because you'll supposedly never find out.
2007-02-28 21:34:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping for a new girlfriend. After all you posted this in Fashion.
2007-02-28 21:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by lillilou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her. u would probably never trust her again since shes far away. try to maintain ur friendship b4 its too late. u probably need time 2 get over it if u were not doing the same thing. But if u feel it is workable, giver her another chance. Only u can say what ur going to do.
2007-02-28 21:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jaelen's Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh NO! That is sooo not cool! Personally, I would drop her! I would drop any guy that would do that to me. I wouldn't tolerate it. It's a long distance relationship so do you think you can trust her after this? Good luck!
2007-02-28 21:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by julie s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in all fairness if she told you, you should at least talk to her that way you'll know if this is something that you two can work out and move on or if it will bring a trust issue bewteen you two(this is a long distance relation)and if you really love her your heart will tell you what you should do talk to her and listen to your heart.
2007-02-28 21:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by 2much 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. But trust me. Long Distance relationships don't work.
They eventually cheat on each other. Give it up before you get hurt.
2007-02-28 21:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating isn't neccessarily physical, as i have discovered. You need to find out how serious your girl is about your relationship. It's all well and good for your to have strong feelings but if she doesn't feel it too, is there a point to staying together? You can't force her to want or love you, as hard as that is to hear
2007-02-28 21:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by adnilebbeautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you know what they say bout long distance relationships. if you love her try and work it out by talking. or end it. it all depends do u want to get yourself in deep and the be heartbroken or end it sooner and move on? good luck
2007-02-28 21:35:06 · answer #11 · answered by RJlicious! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋