is it wrong to plan it pretty much by myself? i mean, i don't want to look greedy like 'i just want to see how many people can get me something' but i honestly just want people to get together and celebrate, but how do i make that clear in invitations and still let people know that i am registered and no doubt accepting gifts?!
2007-02-28 13:07:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
my mom said she would try to help but she is moving and very stressed out about that, my sister hasn't offered but lots of friends did in the beginning but haven't followed up with any questions or suggestions yet.
2007-02-28 13:26:15 · update #1
It is hard not to look greedy when you throw yourself a party, but I guess the party isn't really for you, It's for your baby. Try to weave that in your invites.
2007-02-28 13:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, etiquette says that you shouldn't throw yourself a shower (baby, wedding, etc) since it is basically a party where you receive gifts. Generally family or friends throw it for you. But of course, you can still throw yourself a shower if you want. It's just rules of etiquette...some people may not care or give it a second thought, other people might find it rude...
You could always throw yourself a baby shower celebration just to simply gather with friends and family to celebrate your upcoming birth...but if you want to follow etiquette rules say something like "no gifts please, just the pleasure of your company" that way you don't look like you're throwing a party just to get presents.
But you can do it however you want. There is no such thing as etiquette police that will hunt you down!
Good luck!
2007-02-28 21:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by LittleRoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get together with a couple of those friends and plan the shower-if they volunteered earlier in your pregnancy they may be waiting for you to say something. Some Moms dont want a shower too early and some want the shower after the baby comes so talk to your friends.
2007-02-28 23:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong at all, unless there's someone in the family (mother, sister...) or someone you know (potential godparent, best friend,etc) that could be a bit put out by your decision. Let people know on the invites that it's a celebration and they have the option of bringing just themselves or a present as well. People are generally happier to do something when they're not pressured
2007-02-28 21:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by adnilebbeautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently emailed invitations to my own baby shower. It's being held at my Aunt's house and not mine, so I suppose she's hosting it, but I just emailed the invitation to my friends. My friends didn't find it rude and were happy to RSVP to me and my aunt and cousin are the ones organising the games, but I've been organising the food. Try and ask friends to help out so it doesn't look like you're totally organising it ALL yourself. Get someone else to actually "host" if you can. Meaning, have someone else to serve drinks and food and announce the games. Have fun!
2007-02-28 22:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by MrsTee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋