I'm the only one who knows that my friend, "Joseph" messes around with guys. I've known him for three years, and he said he's done it twice. I asked him if he's gay, but he says he's straight, and that he only sometimes messes with guys because they don't play games when it comes to helping him "release some tension," and that guys generally don't try and start a relationship afterwards.
Is he gay/bi? Or is it possible for straight people to mess with a gay from time to time just to "release some tension."?
2007-02-28 12:49:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not possible for anyone but "Joseph" to answer the question of what his sexual orientation is. As for your second question though, IMO there are people who just like sex, and will take advantage of whatever the situation is to "get off". They're not necessarily gay, although in this day and age of labels I guess they'd have to be considered bi-sexual.
One more thing, I'd say if your friend is being honest about just wanting to "release some tension", he's probably done it a lot more than twice, and just hasn't decided which way he likes it better. That's just my opinion though.
2007-02-28 13:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by pookieb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 03:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is probably bi since he has done it more than once with someone. now if he had only done it once i would say he was experimenting, or gay curious. and sometimes it does relieve "tension".
2007-02-28 13:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know for sure if hes gay. but I'm willing to bet that he is into you and that's why he is telling you what he is doing. in hopes that you will participate with him. so if you are or aren't into what he does is your business. just remember that if he treats you as a friend. that's all that matters. but if he ask of you what you do not want to do, and he doesn't respect that. then he isn't a friend. hes a dog. lose him.
2007-02-28 13:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by shyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not want to define himself specifically as gay or bi. For now we'll say he's a man who has sex with men.
2007-02-28 15:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by Surely Funke 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet it's been said twenty times above me, but I'll say it anyway: men who "mess with" men are gay.. to some degree... does it matter to you whether or not he's gay?
2007-03-04 05:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose he could be experimenting =/ but chances are he's bi... you're asking something only he can know for sure and whether he's comfortable telling you or not is his business... sorry but it's true.
2007-02-28 13:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by jedilounge1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say he is bi. he may be more straight and wanna have a relationship with a woman, but he has to atleast be attracted to a guy to want to have sex with him.
2007-02-28 14:55:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like hes probably gay and not comfortable with it.
2007-02-28 13:11:07 · answer #9 · answered by MetroDetroitGuy25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds gay or bisexual. It’s hard to tell because we don’t know if he has any interest in females.
2007-02-28 13:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by MrCute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋