marriage was a tragedy they took three kid's form me and i was a god fearing woman, they destory my kid's life of being somebody, my ex was on drug's so they had to be with his people now they, don't have anything,my second husband don't want to deal with them,since i met with him, is that right or wrong
2007-02-28 12:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by tweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's wrong. Your children should always come first, no matter what. If he doesn't want to deal with your children, then I wouldn't want to deal with him...
2007-02-28 12:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now after 16 years you are upset about this? Why? Why would any woman pick a man who did not want to deal with her children? You can't lay this on your second husband, he was honest from the begining. I guess now you realize it is not just about having someone between your legs that counts in life. If you want to now start being a mom, then leave this man and go help your children. (I am assuming they want/need you in their life)
2007-02-28 20:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you marry someone, you accept their children as your own and they accept yours. It's just the way it is. Is it wrong that your second husband doesn't accept your children - yes! Those children are a part of you. They carry your blood in their veins too. Ask him if you were to refuse to having anything to do with his kids from a previous marriage, would he think it was alright?
2007-02-28 20:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all their had to be a reason why the court took custdy of the kids from u.second of all your 2 husband choice to be with u and u have kids he needs to accept the kids and if he dont get rid of him because no man should come before your kids. your husband is wrong,does your husband has kids do u accept them?if u where married to your second husband for 16 years why didnt u fight the court to get your kids back?
2007-02-28 20:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if he knew you had children it is very wrong.
when you are with some one that has children they come as a package deal. Your children are your life and i really think that you sit down and speak to him. Talk about maybe getting some consoling for you and him. Children are our future they need to be loved unconditionally.
Hope this helps
P.S. good luck and i will be praying for you.
2007-02-28 20:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by janet 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're kids are a part of you if he doesn't want to deal with that part of you now what else will he not want to deal with in the future.
2007-02-28 21:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by real_bro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally wrong,and u should pray and ask God 2 speak 2 your husband so that he would see things differently. Prayer and Faith together can and will break yokes. I will pray 4 you and your kids.
2007-02-28 20:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by sweet p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's wrong. he should realize that you are the mother of those children wheat er he likes it or not. what kind of mother would you be if you gave up on them just because your husband doesn't want to deal with them.
2007-02-28 20:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Peter's_Wifey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
completely worng he took you on knowing tha tyou had children therefore he took them on as well. If he is unwilling to accept the children then maybe he needs to be show the door!
2007-02-28 20:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by tweedy778 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋