So, basically I don't know what to do about the dad of the baby. I have stopped speaking to him about a month and a half ago. At first he tried helping but now he doesn't even try talking to me either, and we have two classes together. His parents have no idea and mine don't either. I would like for as all to find some way to work this out, and I would like his parents to know whats going as well because they're good people. I just dont know how I'm suppose to tell them or my own parents since im not talking to the babys dad anymore, and I dont know how to tell his or my parents without being really scared & feeling like a fat disappointment.
2007-02-28 12:33:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There's no easy way to tell your parents that your pregnant. Of course, you tell them first, then when you tell the dad's parents, you will (hopefully) have some support. I was 18 when I got pregnant and still had the hardest time telling my parents. I had to tell them twice (they're divorced). Get it over with ASAP before it's obvious that you are. The sooner the better. I wish you luck!
2007-02-28 12:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres no way around it. You are going to have to tell sooner or later. So why not go ahead and do it now.. So what you and the dad arent talking that doesnt mean the grandparents to be shouldnt know that they are going to be grandparents.. Your parents will more then likely be upset at first, but in do time support you, and the decision you have made.. Best of Luck I am sure you will do the right thing... Just think of yourself and the beautiful child you are carring.
2007-02-28 12:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by auntietawnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, you won't be a disappointment. talking to your parents first is the way to go but if you can't, talk to your doctor and get some advice. They can be good in this kind of situation as well. You need to do this as soon as possible thought so you can started organising for your bundle of joy. You also need to get along and started having antenatal (before birth) care as you're young and while your body is growing, it's growing a little someone special too. Courage is holding your head high when others aren't. I have confidence in you that you can do this :-) Email me if you want to with any other questions or if you just need to talk
2007-02-28 12:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by adnilebbeautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as it may hurt to tell them, it will be worse if you dont, stay away from alchool, and start looking for some good parents to adopt the baby. and what ever you do finish school, i had a friend and, this kind of thing happened to her, and her bigest regret is that she didn't graduate. she cant, do much with her life now.
2007-02-28 12:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Frankly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if his parent are good people then i would just call his house and let his mother know that your are 5 months pregnant and that you two arent talking anymore and now he's not even helping you, and if every thing goes well there i would ask her what her thoughts would be on letting your mom know ask her how she would want to hear it if it was coming from her own daughter
2007-02-28 12:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♡♥ !Ð3ΔL ♡♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should start talking to him again......you dont have to be freinds or in a relationship or anything, just talking. then you can let his parents and your parents know about everything. and if you have the baby, he can be involved in the baby's life too.
2007-02-28 12:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by annoying_girl13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i really hope you are getting some prenatal care its very important! anyways, my advice would to be to fess up to your parents first. they may not be very happy at first but they'll get used to it. once that baby is born all those feelings will go away and your parents will be PROUD grandparents! i had my first at 17 believe me its hard but they will get over it
2007-02-28 12:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by j_z_256 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the clinic. Eat the pill. Move out and get a job.
2007-02-28 12:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋