=technically its his custodial time but but I have no clue about my son's whereabouts, even what state they are in. It's not specified in moronic court decree. I am angy that he exposes our son to his new girlfriend and I had no chance to speak to my son in days. CAn it be be court enforced? My God I am losing my mind over it!
2007-02-28 12:18:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you said that it is his time, and therefore it is his time, he can introduce HIS son to anyone that he wants. It isn't just your son, You don't have to talk to your son, it would be nice but he doesn't have to allow it, and he can take them on a vacation, parents take kids out of state all the time. Should the father have told you probably, but does that mean he has to, No. No it can't be court enforced, they don't have the time/money/manpower to run after someone that is not breaking a law. Sorry.
2007-02-28 12:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's not specified in your decree, then yes he can. In our visitation agreement (they were never married) for my step son, it says we can go out of state, but we have to leave a contact number and let her know where we will be.
You can't control the people he has your son around, unless they are abusive to him in some way.
You may be able to get it modified to the point that he needs to leave you contact information, but I doubt you would be able to change the fact that he can take him wherever he wants during his visitation time. You would have to file a petition to change the original order.
2007-02-28 20:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am divorced and i was able to take my kids out of state for a vist i had to write the friend of the court to let them know.i would get a hold of the friend of the court and let them u have not been able to get a hold of your ex to talk to your child.when i went out a state i brought a cell phone and i made sure my kids called their dad at least every day.u know what the courts well not tell your ex not to have your son around his girl friend because they can tell either of u to have your kid around as long as your child is being taken care of they will do nothing.usually once a court order is in place they will not change it i am divorced and tried maybe times they say no evertime. u must have a really good cause not because u are mad at your ex.rember their is a child involed,and he is not a pice of property.
2007-02-28 20:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness,,I know you are going insane, I know I would but...
#l: if he exposes his son also to his girlfriend that is not reason
to deny him time to be a father.....( the court will say you can also
have a boyfriend and it doesn.t matter)
2. if the divorce decree doesn't expressly mentioned an "out of
state statue" you may have to return to family court, and request
the courts to add this to the document,.,,,but your husband has
to consent.....all of these additional clauses should have been
discussed during the divorce.
were you not represented by an attorney.....
2007-02-28 20:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by isageegee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if you mean to take him out of state on a trip or if you mean move out of state with him. I believe he is required to tell you when he takes your son out of state and that may be enforcable in the courts. He should also be required to allow you to talk to your son at least once a week. If you are talking about him moving out of state with your son, he is required by law to notify you 30 days in advance of his intention to move.
2007-02-28 20:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since he's got shared custody there is nothing you can do id ask a lawyer see if he or you are aloud to take your son out of state
2007-02-28 20:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can and will if you do not Hire a lawyer and prevent her from doing so..
2007-02-28 20:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋