I have been sexually active with same boy for a year or so the problem is he very big and when we do it sometimes it hurts because it goes in too far any suggestions?
2007-02-28 12:15:18 · 15 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Let me guess... it usually hurts more within the week before your period? That's very common. Try different positions during the times that you are hurting so that the penetration isn't as deep. Tell him about it. I don't know any man that would mind being told that he's too big. :) I'm certain that he loves you and cares about you. He won't want you to hurt any more than you want to. Good luck!
2007-02-28 12:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as you described your sexual partner as a "boy" I am assuming you are a "girl" and still very much a child yourself. Since this is a possibility, I will not give you any advice about this except to stop having sex and wait until you are physically, emotionally, and intellectually ready to take on the consequences that may come from having sex.
2007-02-28 21:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by On the upside 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same problem here. It hurts really bad for me when he first pushes in and it feels like it's splitting me. Try these:
1) Try a different position.
2) Ask him to put it in only as far as what's comfortable for you. Remember, you're supposed to get pleasure from it, too.
3) Check with your gyno. He/she might want to check you out and dilate your vagina if it's too narrow. It doesn't hurt, promise.
Hope that helps!
2007-02-28 20:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so this is going to sound nasty, but hey u asked. never do it on a full stomach (meaning don't eat b4, and empty ur bowls in advance) also if he goes slow when he goes deep a few times that might help. ur organs need to be moved a bit before ramming it in their. and yes please tell him - this will help his ego and ur pelvic area!! hope it helped!!
2007-02-28 20:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Apryll32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Slow down
2. Gently does it
3. Use lube
2007-02-28 20:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by skip22h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried being on top so you can control how deep he goes?
2007-02-28 20:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It should never hurt. Time for a woman exam.
2007-02-28 20:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about telling him to not go in all the way. Or use lube.
2007-02-28 20:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him not to push it in to far
2007-02-28 20:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
still do it but not as often
2007-02-28 20:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by justin h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋