how do you i am 12 i am in the 7th grade and there is this girl that wants to fight me and she is in the 8th grade so how do you fight btw don't say work it out w/ words cuz if i do that that ***** will wanna fight me even more!so just tell me how and also don't say well tell the principle or sumbody older cuz i am not doing that ok!
2007-02-28 12:11:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Talk to the girl. Tell her how pointless and juvenile it would be to walk up to each other and randomly start kicking the **** out of each other. If she still wants to fight you after you talk to her, then she deserves to get her *** kicked. Make sure she hits you first, and don't sucker punch. (Don't punch her when she's not looking) Well, that's about it. I still think it's wrong, but what can you do?
2007-02-28 16:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know that you say you dont want to tell an adult, but some counselors have a whole confidentiality thing going, so the girl will never figure out that it was YOU. But then again, if you did something to start it, I could understand why you wouldnt want to go talk to anyone. If any of this happened online (through IM, myspace, emails, etc you could also "anonymously" submit those. :)
Most likely, she'll be too scared to actually fight. But if worse comes to worse, get some friends (big girls, or girls with LOTS of attitude who know how to throw down) to come along as an intimidation factor, and to help if you cant handle yourself. Other than that, wear your hair so she would have difficulty grabbing it, like a bun. And put fatty rings on your fingers, like ones with stones. You should know why. :) Oh and make sure she swings first, you should be able to get off ok if you can make it look like self defense.
Good luck! I hope you wont need to use my advice tho!
2007-02-28 20:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by PR 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You're going to get hurt or she's going to get hurt - or both are. You'll wind up suspended or she'll wind up suspended - or you both will. You'll go to juvee or she'll go to juvee or you both will. Pick any or all of these. I'm not going to tell you to work it out with words. I'm going to tell you to say, 'I won't fight and then follow through, don't fight, no matter how provoked. Then watch your back - and if she decides to push you and makes moves to hurt you, call the police and send her fat a*** through the court system. No one will dare mess with you if you are clear about not fighting and you won't be bullied. I recently saw something like this. Last week, there was a private detective at my door asking for verification of some facts. The kids are going to spend a lot of time - and if their parents can afford it, a lot of money to lawyers - thrashing this out in a courtroom. Don't think what you're talking about won't get around. You can be on your way to some mighty uncomfortable judgements - starting with your parents. You don't have have to talk anything out. But you don't have to be an a damned fool either.
2007-02-28 20:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well I know you do not want to hear this but tell the principle and your parents because that is the mature and responsible thing to do.
If you do not want to do that then i would suggest you tell the girl straight out if she touches you then the police will be called and you will have her arrested for assault, weather you be under 18 or over 18 assault is assault and no matter what age you can get in trouble but being under 18 she will end up in juvi or you can sue her.
2007-02-28 22:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well just ram straight into her stomach with your shoulder if you get a chance to start the fight, so you can wind her. if thats never happend to you, its when you hit somebody in the stomach so hard they cant breathe, and she wont be able to put up much of a fight if that happens(it hurts really bad). if you really want to hurt her after this you can kick her if shes on the ground, but I wouldnt recommend that because you will get into tons of trouble. just make sure you can blame the fight on her so you can get in as little trouble as possible. also if the shoulder thing doesnt work try to hit her around the face
of course im a guy so im not exactly sure how girl fighting is supposed to be, but I usually see them doing gay stuff like pulling eachothers hair and clawing eachother, but thats stupid and weak.ems less natural for girls to fight in the first place, yes it is unfair
2007-02-28 23:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by Silent Jimmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, while you don't want to hear any of the things listed above, consider this: don't fight, and go do your own thing. Why would you want to fight someone, then get suspended, or sent to juvee? I believe if you fight, you're showing your immaturity. Not only that, you will just get hurt, as well as she. Please don't fight, and show everyone you cannot be mature. The girl that wants to fight you is already showing her immaturity.
2007-02-28 20:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Apfel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be mature about it and don't fight. unless she hit u first then go for it. i don't believe in fighting But if someone was to hit u; do not let them get away with it. just go for her nose. punch her one good time And as hard as u can. that should teach her a lesson.
But i really think u should be the mature one and don't fight. but im in highschool and i completely understand how things are when girls fight.
2007-03-01 14:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girl that wanted to fight me when I was in the 4th gread but she was to chicken so she found someone eles to do it for her you know what I did? I did the smart thing and walked away. You should never use violence to salve a problem she wants to fight thats her problem be smarter than her don't fight.
2007-03-01 04:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know just how you feel but im in high school.anyways the first thing you should do is just talk a grip of s h i t or if your scared just sneek up behind her pull her shoulder towards you and punch her in the nose if not as hard as you can on the jaw if she swings dodge it as fast as you can, if you can, and punch anywhere on the face if not on the boobs,you know how much that hurts,if you can get her on the ground just sit on top of her and punch as hard as you can towards her face if not just kick her.hope that helps good luck.if you can email me at lil_mexican_angel1218@yahoo.com and tell me what happens
2007-02-28 23:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a violent but when it comes down to it you are going to have to defend yourself all im saying is make sure you dont get first hit.
2007-02-28 23:20:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋