Im a 13 yr old male
sometimes i want to kiss boys and make-out w/ them
but other times i think kissing other boys is gross
so...........
2007-02-28 12:04:24 · 16 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're 13, and you're curious. Regardless of whether it's a phase or not, it's normal. YOU are normal. You're too young to worry about putting a label on yourself. Just know that your thoughts are totally okay.
2007-02-28 12:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by trailangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know a single straight man that ever wanted to make out with a boy. But you are 13, it's a dicey time. Try to hold off for a while. 13 years is really really really young. (Boy you must hate hearing that!).
Lots of gay men, including me, went through phases of being attracted to girls. But it doesn't seem to go the other way. You might be kinda-sorta-a-little-bi. Time will tell. For now, just be 13. And if you DO decide to go mouth mashing, make sure you are safe from someone out-ing you before you are ready.
2007-02-28 22:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think being gay is ever "just a phase."
I wanted to add that I'm gay guy, 25 yrs old, and when I was that young I was confused about everything. It will take time to figure out who you are. Just remember theres nothing wrong with being gay, theres millions of us, we are all over!
2007-02-28 20:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by MetroDetroitGuy25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When i was thirteen i had my first kiss by a girl and a boy at the same party you a just curios man, right now just live life to the fullest and dont care what other people will say about it because its your life and what you do with it is up to you.
2007-02-28 23:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be Bi....being turned on at certain times by dudes.
But mabey you should consider the fact that you may be gay.
regardless time to get a rainbow flag, a sling, and some really cool jock straps so you can make the other boys melt.
2007-02-28 20:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Raver Xeno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grownups seldom talk to kids about sex.At your age your body is starting to change.You are having new feelings that you have never had before.If you have loving and caring parents I am sure they will give you the help you need.Do you have a school counselor? If so talk with him/her.The sooner you do this the better off you will be.Good luck young man.
2007-02-28 20:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by silverback7m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, its like this...
I aint gonna tell you that its natural to be curious and blaah blaah blaah.
But, EVERYONE you know, (inc. everyone in your class) has at some point wondered the same thing as you. Trust me man, at 13 you don't know what you are - in a years time you might look back at this and think 'wtf was I thinking!?'. At the same time you might think 'I'm glad I worked out who i was'. Either way, you'll laugh about it.
Basically, you're not gay, your not straight, you're just horny. If your still curious in a couple of years time, then ask again!
;o)
Ry.
2007-02-28 21:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by Rayan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay, I'm guessing, although it is normal in your age range to be curious and to experiment with other males, kissing is not part of that curiosity. That is a passion act.
2007-02-28 20:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same as you at 13, everyone is different but it will all sort its self out just give it some time.
I'm happy that I'm gay and wouldn't change it for the world. â¥â¥â¥
2007-02-28 20:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think this is a phase ,at this age you really don't know what you want because you have not experienced life yet.
2007-02-28 20:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋