I think i'm ready to have sex with my boy friend but i'm not sure if i'm to young or not i mean i'm only 16??? If you Have any details that you don't want to say on this web page feel free to im me with aim my screenname is CheerAngel6996...
2007-02-28 12:01:27 · 5 answers · asked by cheerangel6996 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you're not sure, then the answer is probably "no".
2007-02-28 13:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by HalJor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am glad that you have enough sense to think about it first, and to ask your question. That indicates to me that you are pretty level-headed. You should be proud of yourself for that. It also shows me that you are not taking this decision lightly. I wish more people were like you.
I do hope that you are sincere in asking this question, and that you are looking for answers, instead of just looking for people to give you the go-ahead. If you just want affirmative answers, then you shouldn't have even asked. Because of what I mentioned in the first paragraph, I do believe that you want real answers.
16 is a bit young to begin having sex. Think about what you would do, if you became pregnant. No matter what people tell you, it CAN and sometimes DOES happen the first time. Even if you try to be safe, and use protection or other methods, they sometimes do fail.
Nothing against you personally, but no 16 year old is ready for the responsibilities of having a baby and giving the baby the care that it deserves or needs. You are still young yourself, and you should be caring about YOUR life. If you were to get pregnant, think of how it would change your own life.
There is no need to rush things. Don't feel you have to have sex because your friends do, or say they do. Don't let your boyfriend talk you into it either. Someday, the time will be right - but it is definitely not right now.
I do hope that you consider my answer in helping you make up your mind. Once you "give yourself", you won't be able to put the genie "back into the bottle" - so to speak. Seriously consider holding out until you are positive you are with the special person that you want to share yourself with. I don't just mean any or every boyfriend you get, but with the person you will marry. If you keep your virginity for him, you won't regret it as you get older.
Good luck in making your decision, but please do give it lots of consideration. It is a very big decision.
I do hope that my advice was helpful.
Take Care.
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2007-02-28 22:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nota LGBT 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only person who knows if you are ready is you. I was a virgin until i was 18, and that worked for me. I didn't let anyone pressure me, and when I felt like it was the right time, and the right person I did it. No regrets. Thats the thing you want to keep in mind. You don't want your first time to be with just anyone...make sure it is someone who isn't going to just ditch you after they sleep with you. That would be devastating for you. Also remember that sex can change things.
Be safe, and do what feels right to you.
2007-03-04 17:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by LoveBats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you are ready or not is up to you and no one else, if you feel that this person is "The one" and you feel that even after you sleep together you will still be the same with each other then go for it but remember if anyone needs to pressure you to do then its not your time and i would say forget about them because they are just not worth it.
2007-02-28 23:08:53 · answer #4 · answered by James J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is way to young for "Sex" !! believe me If I could go back in time, I would have stayed a Virgin till I was married !! plus there is to many std's out there, sex does' not mean I love you, it's much deeper then that !! Good-Luck..
2007-03-01 16:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Pete Allison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋