After several happy marriage, so sudden he told me that. He left us now with minimum money and want to divorce. As am nt working, I have no much money to pay a lawyer. Any info, what should I do? Is there any help groups in Singapore that can help?
2007-02-28 11:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They don't have food stamps or welfare in Singapore?
could always sell yourself on the street corner to earn the money.
2007-02-28 11:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by jupiter49801 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Hey sweetie from experience let the *** go he does not deserve you or your child. It will hurt for a while then you will meet someone that does deserve you and you will wonder what the hell you ever seen in his dumb *** anyway! Life does go on believe me. Chances are this new relationship will not work either and he will try to come back, but don't take him cause you will never be able to trust his dumb *** again. You so deserve better!!!! Good luck and God Bless!!!
2007-02-28 12:00:15 · answer #2 · answered by craftylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to be strong and calm. Think for the future of your child and yourself....then go to the welfare department in S'pore to get help...do you have any friends or relatives there ? Get divorce, get child support from him...do let him get away so easily ! Get a job to support yourself and your child...always think positively...I know it is hard to get rid of the pain but believe me...it will be over one day. The most important things is you must be strong and take good care of yourself. Good luck and God bless.
2007-02-28 12:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by blue_sea07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get child support, get divorced, these things happen alot, so sorry u are having to go through this. he probably has been seeing her for quite a while u just didn't see it coming. seek help from a social services of some type to get u through this, find a close trusted friend u can talk to about your pain.
2007-02-28 11:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's bad enough when a husband leaves his wife for another women but its more bad to leave his child go threw legal aid if there's one in your state its a low cost or nothing with no income i hope this help's call a lawyer
2007-03-04 10:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a weblink to a whole list of welfare organizations in singapore:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_voluntary_welfare_organisations_in_Singapore
You do not have to go through this alone. As you can see, there are plenty of resources to help you out. don't forget that you can request child support and alimony to get you by.
2007-02-28 12:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Meredith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently he was not too "committed". Where is your family? Ask them for help. If you are Chinese you know the rules. If you are not Chinese I don't think the government will help you. You sound like you are from outside of China. Like I said ask help from friends and family. No government owes you a living.
2007-02-28 12:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to DHS they willl get you a lawyer free
2007-02-28 11:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋