could someone please help me?

Question

a month in a half ago i had my period for 2 weeks. but it stopped for 3 days in between but started up again for 7 days.
the day b4 i started my bf and me had unprotected sex. well on the 19 of this month i started my period but it was all spotty.
so we got 2 pregnancy test just to make sure. and they both came up negative. so we know i am not pregnant.
a bunch of yall make tell me to go to a doctor But the problem is im not even 16 yet so i can't go because if i do they will tell my parents i have had sex because im not 16 yet.
im confused and not sure what is going on in my body. because this had Never happened before.
could i be pregnant ? [i seriously doubt it tho]
or could something else be causing my period to be the way it is?

by the way, i've only had sex with one person And it is the same for him.
so i seriously doubt that i'd have any STD
and i diffently would not have AiDS.

Answer 1

There could be a number of things going on here.

Periods are most often affected by stress. If you are stressed about the fact that you could be pregnant, then that is one possibility.

The results of your pregnancy test may not be totally accurate. There are certain things as false negatives and going to the doctor is probably your best bet. If I were you, I'd go to the doctor. The excerpt below is something I got from law.enotes.com regarding doctor/patient confidentiality. Unless you were willing to cause harm to someone else, I believe they are held responsible for keeping your visit results confidential...even if your parents were to ask.

"The fundamental right to privacy, guaranteed by the Fifth and Fourteenth Amendments to the U. S. Constitution, protects against unwarranted invasions of privacy by federal or state entities, or arms thereof. As early as in Roe v. Wade, 410 U. S. 113 (1973), the U. S. Supreme Court acknowledged that the doctor-patient relationship is one which evokes constitutional rights of privacy. But even that right is not absolute and must be weighed against the state or federal interest at stake."

Answer 2

Hi Michelle,

First off - let me remind you that pregnancy is not the only reason you should be using protection. There are lots of very common STD's out there - not to mention ones like Herpes and AIDS that there is no cure for.

Second - you are still young. Stress can make your period do weird things. Even just stress from worrying about why it's spotty has made my friend miss hers. And, since your cycle is NOT regular - the rhythm method is a BAD choice for you - get something else.

Check again in a couple of weeks - but PLEASE stop being careless with your body! You are worth protecting and taking care of. You deserve to treat yourself with greater respect.

Answer 3

OK, if you are not even 16, DONT HAVE SEX! I know what ur guna say "Oooh its Love!" If t is really love you two can wait untill you get married to have sex. You ca always make out, you can even take off ur clothes soemtimes and parade around, but you two shoudln't be having sex! You make it sound liek u r so clean "Oh, Ive only had sex with oen eprson!" UR 15! U shoudln't be having sex at all!!!!!!!!!!!!I hope you are pregnant, that shoudl teach you, no i take it back, I don't want that poor baby to have to lie in this worl with a 15 year old mother.

Answer 4

I dont know what state you live in, but in California you can sign up for this thing called PACT and its run through Planned Parenthood. And its free everything sex related. And they dont tell your parents. So you can get free testing, exams, birth control, emergency contraception.

From a parents perspective, I can see how bad of an idea that is, but from my perspective, its such a relief.

Maybe your state would have something like that too?

Answer 5

A lot of things can cause irregular periods. Nerves, nutrition, etc. If you are anxious go see a doctor and tell her. Since you are not pregant you don't have to mention the sex, but you should wear protection next time.

Answer 6

probably just stress.....